colosseum Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 At what point do you "know" you're over your ex? And rebounds don't count. (though I guess one could argue every relationship is strange psychoanalytic rebound from our desire to be with our mothers...but that consideration aside) Opinions wanted!
EmperorR Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 It took me awhile about like 4 months, but no calls, texts, etc., plus me taking her off the pedastool and finding other women attractive and not having her on my mind 24/7 or caring if she ever tries to talk to me again pretty much cemented it for me.
alwayssme Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 LOL Emperor cuz your ex was crazy!!! and treated u like crap + the cheating...surprised u didnt leave her first....its harder when ur ex truyl was a good person and u were the one who messed up or it simply being a crappy situation...congrats though, u seem to be doing great
LoveUrselfFirst Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 No one can say for sure exactly when they are really over their ex. Everyone is different, you know? I can't do with the rebounds because at some point you may hurt the person because what your ex may have done to you or the person may take advantage of the fact that you are heart broken. How long have you been broken up?
Author colosseum Posted March 5, 2009 Author Posted March 5, 2009 Well, 1.5/2 months. But it's complicated because of this. I mean, I've gone on dates since and I've had fun, but I guess I'm just insecure about how much of my enjoyment is genuine and how much of it is just a reflection of my need for fulfillment, if there is any at all. So just wondering if there are signs that people can tell from which one could say to onself: Yeah, I'm over her/him.
miss-jem-bishop Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 you know when your over your ex.. when you can see them with someone else and no be bothered bout it, you just feel happy bout them finding someone new, but you know when your not when 1000 memories flash through you mind and you just wanna be with them and you feel hate for the new person their with without knowing them.... also when people talk bout them you cant help but think bout you 2 and memories! rebounds well you know when someone is one of the them because when your with them you think bout ur ex, when you speak to them you want them to be someone else! SOOO... you know one someone isnt one cause you wouldnt feel any of the above you would feel happy and wanna see them all the time and yeah you would think of an ex sometimes everyone does but you wouldnt feel you wanted them bck. x
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