Oneconfused Posted March 3, 2009 Posted March 3, 2009 Ok here's the story. Me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months and everything has been great. He works out of town so I only see him on the weekends. I either drive up there or he comes home when he is not working on the weekends. It has been like this are whole relationship. Everything in our relationship has been great up untill in November when told me that he wanted to break because he need space and didnt want a girlfriend and that I was always wanting to spend all are time together we he finally came home. So we broke up for a week. The day he broke up with me he didnt even answer my phone calls and that lasted about 3 days. Then he started calling me and texting me like normal about a weeks time we were back together. So everything has been great since then (well atleast in my eyes) till this weekend when he came home he was acting kindof weird but he still spent the whole weekend together and every night he told me he loved me (he said it first). Well we got into a fight Sunday afternoon and he hung up on me and he ignored all my calls up untill Monday night when he called to tell me that he wanted to break and that he didnt want a girlfriend or anybody to answer too (the same thing he told me that last time) in my plea to stay together I asked him if he truelly loved me and he said "yes". So why would he end things the way he did? Is it really over this time? Also, after talking to me I changed my status on my myspace because I knew he would that same night but I still left him as my top friend and all our pictures when I later signed on he had changed everything on his like deleted his pictures of me and took me off his top friends. So what I am asking for advice is after 9 months can he really just walk away and be done or is this his time to think???
Blush Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 Yes, there is FOR SURE someone else! Or so it seems... Try moving on and prooving to him that he missed out on you ! ps. Don't question him or imply at all that you are suspicious of another women, that will only seem insecure on your part.
LoveUrselfFirst Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 I believe that he is with someone else. I hate it when they act one way one day and another way another day. It is better to have known this now than years down the road, so it's better if you leave him alone all together. The whole myspace thing, place it for now as private or delete the account because keeping him under your "friends" list, you'll never be able to move on fast as you would like to. I think it's childish on his part to change his status on a networking site but it's really typical of him (or a person in general) to make you look stupid and you are not that at all. So with that said, move on. I know this may sound harsh but...don't believe the hype when they say "I Love You" or if he truly loved you, because deep down he doesn't want to hurt your feelings but in another sense, he doesn't want to tell you the truth because if he did love you, he wouldn't have done the things or said the things to hurt you.
Author Oneconfused Posted March 4, 2009 Author Posted March 4, 2009 So like ya'll all said he is with some one else or atleast thinking about it... I really find it hard that he could do that because I just dont know when he would really have the time but I guess it is all in front of my face and I am just choosing to ignore it....
LoveUrselfFirst Posted March 4, 2009 Posted March 4, 2009 I said the same thing with my ex, even though I've asked him and he didn't say yes, but he didn't say no, but my gut is telling me otherwise. I mean the way things happened with me and my ex, if he wasn't with someone else, he would have reached out to me by now and probably texted me with his whack a** line like "You know your still my baby".
miss-jem-bishop Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 it seems week days he dosent want you and weekends he dose... this is not right something is going on or he is just be a jerk! 9 months is a while to be with someone and for him to start acting like this is strange .. you know that if he loved you he wouldnt be leaving you! maybe you should write him a letter or texts and say it now or never i want you to say what you want and im not into this on and off thing.. im here for good or not at all.. i care for you and everything but im not gonna be a fool for you and well see what he has to say to that i guess ... then let me know and il try help you as much as i can x
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