NewSunrise Posted March 13, 2009 Posted March 13, 2009 Forgive---yes, a process...lengthy process. Then give your BS a chance to repent, change, hope, and pray he'll come to his/her senses, love you more this time around. Lots of MC, IC. You change, accomodate and fulfill WS' needs. Often, you lose yourself in the process. You suck up what your needs are most of the time while you wonder "if" it's good enough. And if your WS doesn't change ways...call it relapse---whatever. It's another two step back from recovery. Finally enough is enough. Even forgiveness has its limits. This time, you forgive yourself and....walk away.
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