EmbarrassedIdiot Posted March 3, 2009 Posted March 3, 2009 I have been dating this guy since this past November. Then I didn't see him for like a month and a half, he claims he was busy and being difficult but whatever. Anyways we started to go out on dates again and we definitely enjoy each other's company. He knows that I like him and I know that he likes me but I'm thinking that this is not going anywhere. We never actually talked about where this relationship thing is going and quite frankly I don't want to because I'm afraid I might scare him away. In conversations that we've had I get the impression that he does not want a relationship with me, he just wants to go out to dinner or a movie, the bar and after that have sex. I get this idea from him because the last time I saw him he kept telling me that if I find some other guy or other guys for different days of the week, to make sure that one specific day is left open for him. He thinks its funny but I think its a bit insulting, like I don't know if he's being serious or not. Also, he mentioned "booty call" to me and I was like "Is that what you think of me?!!!" then he tells me no but tries to come up with other names that obviously is a cover up for the term. This is really frustrating me because I really like him a lot and I want to be with him. I don't want to be a "booty call." I don't know if I am over thinking this. Oh and we just had our 6th date the other night maybe that might help. Please help me I don't know what to do.
AGBourne Posted March 3, 2009 Posted March 3, 2009 Its just a booty call and that is all it is. Both guys and girls need to stop taking to heart to what each other say and start paying attention to actions. Actions never lie. Sorry to tell you but I don't see any relationship here. Only booty.
anotherworld Posted March 3, 2009 Posted March 3, 2009 It's probably a booty call, but the best thing to do is just bring it up to him. Worst that happens is it's a booty call and he lies about it and things get worse and worse; but that'll happen either way, right?
collegekid491 Posted March 3, 2009 Posted March 3, 2009 Either the above 2 are right or he just has a 'unique' sense of humor. I've had girls make comments about me having other gf's jokingly to just be playful, and more often then not fish for a compliment or some reassurance. The other thing I just gotta comment on, cause I always say this. When you make a post like this we all get your perspective, and what you think comes out in how you tell the story. It just sounds very much like you think its a booty call, if that is in fact the case you will break up right? So what's the harm in bringing up the 'serious' talk? If anything it ends it sooner or potentially gives you more perspective
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