Fat Girls are Unattractive

March 3, 2009

No, all I need to do is be able to attract women I find attractive, which I do quite easily.

This has caused some a bit of mental flailing so I'll explain for them. This response was directed at someone who felt that since I like and date slim young pretty women I should prove that I'm slim, young and pretty. This is a stupid idea.

It's similar to asking a beautiful young woman who prefers wealthy men to prove she can get those men by showing her bank balance. Wealthy men don't care about her bank balance, they care about how good she looks on their arm.

The 'proof' that I can and do date the sort of women I prefer is that I'm doing it.

On topic, most guys dislike fat women for a mix of cultural and biological reasons. I don't know anywhere that extreme health and mobility limiting obesity is attractive but when I visited Africa the ideal for beauty was, while not too unhealthy, pretty damn fat. It's largely cultural I think.

March 3, 2009

Okay, look, you're not making much sense here. Either the name-calling should have an impact, or it shouldn't. Which is it? Do you want people to be sensitive to words, or not? If not, then why bother saying mean crap, since if it just rolls off people, then won't be very motivated by them, either?

I don't say a-hole stuff to motivate people. Like I said, I'm not trying to help people "find the light." If I was, I'm sure there are better ways than being a jerk. I just mentioned the thing about fat people being motivated by nasty comments because it's true.

This is why I did my psychoanalysis post, kashmir. Because honestly, if you're going to raise up your past as justification for saying cruel things - as tough love or whatever - then I think it's important for people to know where you're coming from. And I don't buy that you believe simultaneously in "tough love" and "don't be so sensitive."

I'm not using my past to justify saying bad things. I'm not justifying them at all in fact...I'm just saying them because they are what are on my mind.

I think there are a lot of oversensitive guys - yes, GUYS - on here, who are concerned about appearing shallow and can't just own that they like skinny women - they have to actually demean women who weigh more by saying they're less than human or some stupid shxt, and further justify that cruelty by saying it's for their own good - except they shouldn't be so sensitive!

I think TBF said it best: just own it. You like skinny women, that's fine. But why be so ANGRY about it? Methinks a BUNCH of people are simply protesting too much. Own your choices, just don't be a freaking a$$ about it. Why is that so hard?

I don't totally understand you here. If I was concerned about being shallow, why would I go above and beyond shallow and be mean like I was?

I'm telling people to stop being so sensitive because I'm not being that serious. You think I really believe fat people don't have souls or are less than human? It's an exaggeration. I use exaggerations, A LOT. It's the way I speak, think, and write because I'm a little bonkers.

For the record, here is what I'm 100% serious about:

I like girls that are in shape.

I would not date an out of shape girl solely for the reason of her being out of shape.

I may or may not be shallow, but if I am, I don't care.

I think that anyone can get in shape with the right attitude and motivation.

People who aren't in shape can't expect to be attractive to those who are in shape.

So why would both of you dispute my statement? Sounds to me like over-sensitivity!

I'm just pointing out that you could use a better unit of measurement, for future reference. I know you like your factual accuracy.

March 3, 2009

Clearly, remaining topical is important to you ...

Sigh. I and a few others have been warned about staying on topic. You might consider trying to do so, if you want to bash at me start a thread.

On topic, (being creative here) I don't think that most men who prefer slim women have an actual hatred for fat women, but I do dislike it when fat women start name calling the guys who are not attracted to them.

March 3, 2009

There's still a vast difference between fat and overweight.

Now fat is in the 1st pic posted by the O/P. Why would i even lie about being attracted to someone like that. That is not attractive to me but maybe attractive to some men. I'm glad there's people who love somebody like that but it sure ain't me.

Overweight is the managable weight where you can still look attractive in certain clothes. They might have a few problem areas but its under control.

March 3, 2009

While I don't disagree with you, the flip side of this is, why are you stalking members, solely posting to call people out when you have zero evidence of such? It makes me seriously wonder about your personal insecurities and unhappiness in life.

This is adorable. When I actually engaged you and challenged you directly, you ran with your tail between your legs. We can pick up that last conversation any time. Did you feel safer sniping at me in this manner instead? I make no secret of the reason I post. You assume I post that way because I see this activity as an extension of my personal life. Interestingly, the fact that you do see this as an extension of your personal life is at the heart of my annoyance with you.

Further, I applaud your creative use of the word "stalking." If I recall correctly, you've accused several people of that. The extent to which I've "stalked" you is that I've noticed, no matter when I log on, you have the latest post in multiple topics. If you don't want people to note how often you post, perhaps you should offer the pretense of doing anything else with your time except posting.

Do you honestly feel so unspecial, that people with normal lives are considered either special or liars?

I suspect the point in my post above with which you agreed was my analysis that he was boasting and lying. Your life isn't abnormal, except for the fact that I know every goddamn thing about it, and I shouldn't. You need a more constructive hobby.

I probably do too.

March 3, 2009

It amazes me the same people who wouldn't be caut dead saying a outwardly raciest or sexiest comment are the ones who openly degrade overweight people why? because its still excepted even funny in todays society and thats sad.

If its the thread I'm thinking about #1 that guy wasn't worried about her health he was worried about how his friends saw her thats just being vain and shallow thats why he got sh*t for it.

And the fact he did shows that maybe some peoples mind sets are changing thats refreshing! Look if people don't like overweight people more power to them but why outwardly degrade some one just because you don't find them attractive?

Shallow people are also equality unattractive.....

March 3, 2009

I think I speak for myself and a large number of people when I say fat girls are unattractive.

depends on what your definition of "fat" is. for some its 10 lbs overweight and for some its 100 lbs overweight

i don't mind a woman with up to 20 lbs or so of extra "baggage" as long as she carries it well and is sexy and dresses well

but most of the women i've dated have been in the size 2 to size 6 category

March 3, 2009

This is adorable. When I actually engaged you and challenged you directly, you ran with your tail between your legs. We can pick up that last conversation any time. Did you feel safer sniping at me in this manner instead? I make no secret of the reason I post. You assume I post that way because I see this activity as an extension of my personal life. Interestingly, the fact that you do see this as an extension of your personal life is at the heart of my annoyance with you.

No, I chose not to respond to your useless ramblings.

Further, I applaud your creative use of the word "stalking." If I recall correctly, you've accused several people of that. The extent to which I've "stalked" you is that I've noticed, no matter when I log on, you have the latest post in multiple topics. If you don't want people to note how often you post, perhaps you should offer the pretense of doing anything else with your time except posting.

Some people can multi-task. Apparently you can't. I can't blame you for it. Just as long as you acknowledge your own inabilities, it's all good!

I suspect the point in my post above with which you agreed was my analysis that he was boasting and lying. Your life isn't abnormal, except for the fact that I know every goddamn thing about it, and I shouldn't. You need a more constructive hobby.

I probably do too.

Babe, you don't know much about my life. I know nothing about your life, which is a combination of not being interested in back-checking your posts and realistically speaking, there's probably nothing of interest to share or discuss. That's okay too. I just don't call you out about your lack of a life.

March 3, 2009

Overweight is the managable weight where you can still look attractive in certain clothes. They might have a few problem areas but its under control.

Dude, the clothes have to come off sooner or later.

Anyone know what the moderator view of artistic non-anatomically revealing nude photos here would be?

March 3, 2009

She's sort of borderline but she looks flabby and out of shape. Her weight isn't the issue so much as the way it's distributed. I'm picky because I can be, if I wasn't already dating or able to date slimmer cuter women I might eventually have to lower my standards. But as it is, I am and can, and I don't, so I won't.

YOUR KIDDING ME? that women is flabby? were??? I honest to god don't get that one?? So wait the Blondie girl in the Lil bikini pic standing behind the dressing room or something is flabby and out of shape??

Is it just me here cause I find that comment disturbing while I do acknowledge your right to you opinion fair enough. She looks perfect to me not to skinny not to big just in the middle.

Makes me wonder if todays ideas of fashion and whats popular is affecting peoples over all views in a neg way guess to some its not "Hot" unless its almost skeletal anymore..

March 3, 2009

YOUR KIDDING ME? that women is flabby?

Everywhere. I wouldn't call her overweight, but she is fat. Flabby arms, legs, tummy; couple that with small arms, small calves, big waist and so on and she's not someone I would try to chat up.

March 3, 2009

YOUR KIDDING ME? that women is flabby? were??? I honest to god don't get that one?? So wait the Blondie girl in the Lil bikini pic standing behind the dressing room or something is flabby and out of shape??

Is it just me here cause I find that comment disturbing while I do acknowledge your right to you opinion fair enough. She looks perfect to me not to skinny not to big just in the middle.

Yes I was thinking that as well, that makes no sense. Then on the other hand he chooses the dancer and complains about the blond girl's face, when if you look at the dancer's face she looks like a witch in that picture. I don't see any sort of appeal in that woman's face regardless how cute her body is.

I think some people just like to stir the pot and make things up, I am with Scratch on that one.

I think this whole post is pretty distasteful and I am still trying to figure out what the point is? I am very thin myself and always have been so I don't know what it feels like to be overweight but I can empathize with people who do struggle with their weight and I don't see the point of creating a whole post to call out the unattractiveness of "fat people". Not to mention I had a very hard time reading the opening post considering how many grammatical and spelling mistakes were in it. If fat says a lot about a woman's personality, then what does not being able to write one sentence without spelling mistakes say about a guy?

March 3, 2009

.... what does not being able to write one sentence without spelling mistakes say about a guy?

I assume a lot of posters here are ESL.

March 3, 2009

It amazes me the same people who wouldn't be caut dead saying a outwardly raciest or sexiest comment are the ones who openly degrade overweight people why? because its still excepted even funny in todays society and thats sad.

Shallow people are also equality unattractive.....

What really frustrates me as a man is most of the shallow posts here seem to be from men. It is as bad as reading racist and sexist comments to me.

None of my friends, male or female, overweight or thin engage in this type of behavior. If they did, the friendship just might end.

I don't get it.

March 3, 2009

What really frustrates me as a man is most of the shallow posts here seem to be from men.

Wanting to pair up with someone we are attracted to is shallow? Shame on you for trying to shame me into conforming to your notions of correct behavior.

March 3, 2009

That's ridiculous.

If you're calling HER out of shape and fat, you need to post a picture of your adonis-like body.

The only thing wrong with that girl is her toes.

I agree that that girl is quite attractive. However, I can understand why CV would find fault with her based on his preferences. Her face is pretty but she doesn't have a model's/dancer's figure, and he seems to go for that type.

March 3, 2009

Enough.

I grow increasingly tired of the boasters who spend every waking moment on an internet message board proclaiming how successful and desirable they are, how thoroughly contented with their own lives they are. Everything is cut and dry, simple and straightforward.

It's so easy for you and so hard for the rest of us. This allows for two possible conclusions:
1. You are special, or;
2. You are lying.

Now, there are some special people in the world, and there are some liars. One category is far more robust in general, and that same category happens to skew even more heavily towards messageboard heroes.

Dude, nobody cares how easily you attract women, or how awesome you are. All people care about are actions. And, your actions, to the best of my understanding, include posting here on Saturday night that "Gisele isn't quite my cup of tea."

Be sure to clean out your private message box. Many of the girls who post here are hotter than she is (just ask them), and you're such an impressive man they're undoubtedly barraging you with flirtatious PMs.

I suppose you could shut me up by posting a picture we can verify as you, or really, anything other than your usual cheeky catch phrases and easy answers. Or you could stop posting for a while and revert to your usual triumvirate of Halo 3, soft core porn and the takeout joints you have on speed dial. If it's not here in 30 minutes it's free, right?

:bunny::bunny:Hip Hip Hooray:bunny::bunny:

March 3, 2009

Yes I was thinking that as well, that makes no sense. Then on the other hand he chooses the dancer and complains about the blond girl's face, when if you look at the dancer's face she looks like a witch in that picture.

The dancer has a fantastic body, the other girl does not and her face is not redeeming her. The OP was about the body, I should never have mentioned the face.

March 3, 2009

:bunny::bunny:Hip Hip Hooray:bunny::bunny:

OOpss, should have read everything. Carry on:o

March 3, 2009

Wanting to pair up with someone we are attracted to is shallow? Shame on you for trying to shame me into conforming to your notions of correct behavior.

You totally missed the boat there no one said you have to want to date overweight people did they.

If anything I respect your right to not want to but on the flip side wheres the respect overweight people get now adays?

March 3, 2009

Wanting to pair up with someone we are attracted to is shallow? Shame on you for trying to shame me into conforming to your notions of correct behavior.

Also just on a side note society in general have been trying to shame overweight people into conforming into what the majority have thought was its idea of "beauty" for ages now...

March 3, 2009

It's find to choose not to date people you find physically unattractive, but why the need to call them disgusting names?

March 3, 2009

It's find to choose not to date people you find physically unattractive, but why the need to call them disgusting names?

Thank you exactly my point all along the answer is because we still allow it simple as that!

March 3, 2009

It's find to choose not to date people you find physically unattractive, but why the need to call them disgusting names?

I don't recall doing that.

March 3, 2009

I don't recall doing that.

I haven't read the whole thread, but I've seen names like "cow" thrown around in reference to overweight women.

Sign In

Fat Girls are Unattractive

Recommended Posts

clv0116

kashmir

clv0116

fetish

scratch

SpanksTheMonkey

alphamale

Trialbyfire

clv0116

SpanksTheMonkey

clv0116

sarme

clv0116

39388

clv0116

shadowplay

bentnotbroken

clv0116

bentnotbroken

SpanksTheMonkey

SpanksTheMonkey

shadowplay

SpanksTheMonkey

clv0116

shadowplay

What's New

My Activity Streams

More...