janjan Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Hi, Just wanted some opinions on this. Women have their moods, and sometimes they feel down and are very quiety, don't really speak much. Some of them keep to themselves, some of them talk to you and trip off easily. Some guys leave it alone, and some ask the girl things like "what's wrong? is it me?" etc. Both genders, how do you act wrt this? What I am asking is, if it's better to talk about things, or if to just wait? Girls, do you think that you are worrying over nothing at times like this, or that there are things you should talk about and if you wait, you'll get in a good mood and be in denial about something being an issue?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Well...I appreciate my SO asking me if I'm okay, but don't push discussion on me at all. I'll generally let him know I'm stressed about something but don't feel like talking about it right then. It's better for me to just ruminate for a bit and then if I want to talk about it, I'll let him know. I hate it when girls say "nothing's wrong" and then they're pissed that the guy doesn't read her mind. I don't do that crap.
nicki Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 How about asking gently "Hey, what do you need from me right now?" Simple, helpful and to the point. Most women would appreciate it, and will tell you if they need some space, or a hug, or to talk about it.
jadelil25 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Everyone is different. Some people like to be asked if they are ok and some people like to be left alone. Some girls find it hard to open up because they are worried that they are coming across as needy or insecure. Just ask her once if she is ok, and if she does not respond or seems to give a short answer then it is best to leave it.
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