jadelil25 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Still go on a proper dating website such as plenty of fish, match.com etc if you are in a relationship? If you do what are your reasons and thoughts about doing it when you are in a relationship? Im really curious to why people do this when in relationships and what the reasons are for doing it. Im quite an insecure person and im working on getting better at it. I have been cheated on twice in the past and abused but I realise that is the past and I need to move on. I have a boyfriend at the moment and I have asked him to be honest no matter what. He said that he is and that he always will be. He said that he cares about me, likes me a lot etc and understands what I have been through. He also said that he wants me to be honest with him too. I do belive him and feel he is being honest and geunine. I noticed he is going back on to a dating website again and im getting a bit parnoid. His profile is hidden but he seems to be going on there quite a lot recently. Am I just being paranoid over nothing?
Geishawhelk Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 No, I'd call him on it. You've been cheated on twice before, and I figure your radar's functioning.... Ask him why he's done it, tell him it upsets you, tell him you know it's an issue you're working on, but in the meantime, would he help you through it by not going on there any more? Please? He did say he'd be honest, and that he cares for you.... How much, exactly?
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Sounds to me like he's looking for greener pastures. I still had 2 months left on my Match account when I became exclusive with my sweetie - I immediately canceled my account - didn't care about the money. So I'm having a hard time seeing any valid reason. Talk to him about it.
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