turtle32 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 hello everyone i have a question or a problem i need some help with if you all dont mind helping me:) Ok i met this girl online she lives close too me anyways we met on a sunday at a resturant met her whole family it was kinda funny but she wanted to go out gave me her number we text alot and talked some on the phone she works about two hours away and home on weekends so before she went back that sunday she came the gym i was at in her town was at a basketball tourny my kids and we talked about 15 minutes so we talk that week she comes home and both was busyt sat and sun so monday she stayed home and we met and spent a couple hours had a great time or that is what she said. Anyway all that evening she would text saying things like wow i miss you i wish i was with you , i loved your hugs and stuff liek your smell is on me and i cant stop smelling my cloths we hugged:)) so i had told her i ws going to be in a town whsich is close to where she works and she wasnt coming home this weekend so asked if she would like to meet and spend some tiem together on sat she said she would so on thursday evening i ask her via text if she was still planning on coming to see me and she said she had to take some money to another city on sat to a friend for a trip and she had already planned to go line dancing but was suppose to cancel to go with me but since she was taking the money going to go dancing anyway that disappointed me and i guess i let it show over the phone she called after i sent some text that was not mean just could tell i was upset she called ask if i was mad at her and trying to explain said she would come sunday i told her i couldnt at first i wa upset that she broke the date so i was upset never yelled or anything like that just told her i needed to go really didnt want to talk i know i screwed up right there. But she tried to call she was upset i hung up and ddint talk so i sent her some text and she didnt reply after about thirty minutes she tried to call but i was in a gym and it was loud and didnt hear it she left message trying to explain what she had to do and worried that i wasnt going to talk to her and thatw as the last i have heard from her . i sent her a few text tried to call twice no anwser and i sent her an emailand she read it becuase it sent em an email and told me she did i didnt call her anymore i felt like i have tried to apologize and get in contact all weekend i didnt contatc havent heard nothing from her. So what should i do? should i call her or tetxt email what? and how does someone act like tehy are crazy over you the first part of the day and go four days and ignore u? please tell me what i should do because im getting ready to email her unless someone comes up with a better ideal ?????????
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Holy crap. Punctuation. Paragraphs. I can't even follow this.
Author turtle32 Posted March 2, 2009 Author Posted March 2, 2009 sorry about that was in a hurry at work and typed it let me ask it more simple , how can a girl that was crazy about you just started dating tetxt me and said all these nice things to me and we had a misunderstanding thurday she called me left message and now she is ignoring me wont anwser text, email or phone calls just disappeared how is that?
sid3 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 It's actually quite simple. You pissed her off. Now she is more than likely done with you. When you first start dating someone new, the smallest misunderstandings can kill any chance of things progressing. Take the time to make what you write readable. Esp. if your going to send her an email. Which I would advise against. I'd back off if you've already apologized. More than likely you'll just push her further away. You'd be wise to remember that when it comes to the early stages of dating, people can and often do change their mind very quickly.
goldencloud Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Hey there, I would honestly leave it for now, it's obvious she was interested in you...so just relax! Too much 'must get in contact and explain' mentality(especially in the beginning) can ruin things! My advice: do nothing. She'll contact you when she's ready:)
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