auxie Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 To start, a short history must be given. I dated this boy (we'll call him Jason) for 8 months last year. I ended things with him because he was overly clingy and was too controlling. Unfortunately, I let my friends influence me, and broke up with him because of it, blaming it on the summer and time apart. Over the summer and during the beginning of classes, we did not speak at all. Then one day, four months ago, he invited me over and we hooked up. Since then we've been...'together'. But not really, though we hook up and spend close to every weekend together, we aren't dating. We are friends with benefits however we are exclusive, and I don't know what to do. He asked me to prom and I accepted. I told him (one drunken night, 2 days ago actually) that I couldn't be in the place that I was anymore. That I would either be with him, and I'd throw myself in and give it a go, or we needed to stop this, but trying to balance somewhere in between the two was too hard for me especially from where we came from. He told me that he understood. Thus, I don't know what to do, or expect. Do I let go? Move on? Or do I hang around and wait? Do I teeter in the middle? I do like him a lot. A lot more than I'm willing to accept. What to do? Help!
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