mixwell Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Okay I was with my ex for 7 years broke up because i moved out of state... well we didnt talk for bout 3-4 years then found her on facebook... did a friends request etc.. she accepted and I believe she is single now... Only reason her and I stopped talkin was b/c I was trying to recover so told her i didn't think it was a good idea for her and I to keep in tough because I was trying to get over the breakup and her being with another guy.. anyways I asked if she would be open to hanging out for a few drinks as friends she said yea.. asked for her # and still waiting for her #... I am 25 but ths was the love of my life for 7 years.. First time doing anything sexual was with her.. from age 14-21ish we were together.. since beginning of HS.. Anyone think there is potential in this ?? By the way when i asked to hang out it was as friends of course and I know that even if I am interested in her to act kinda aloof etc.. The reason her and I broked up initlally was because i moved outta state so no hard feelings or hatred etc.. Its kinda weird to have the 1 girl that I was completely in love with back in my life again kinda.. So you guys think there is potential ?? Any advice is appreciated.. Thanks in advance MixweLL
SoulSearch_CO Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Potential? I vote yes. Not sure about any advice - you sound like you know what you're doing (the semi-aloof thing - not appearing too eager). Just playing it as friends for now and seeing where it goes. Good luck - how romantic!
zaphodb2002 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Absolutely! And yeah, good luck man! Tell us how it goes.
ruggy Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Ok, I will play devil's advocate. Proceed with caution. A lot can happy in 3 - 4 years of no contact. She may just want to be just "FRIENDS" and nothing else. A lot of ex girlfriends I had say they want to be friends, but it usually does not work. Especially after you shoot and don't score. Just play it slow and with caution.
Author mixwell Posted March 3, 2009 Author Posted March 3, 2009 Thanks for the responses. One downside I was thinking of was that with this time apart we might in different areas of our lives although she said shes working full time and such but as far as what you're looking for in another person might have changed with the time and we were together soo long because we were comfortable and didn't know anything else. Now that we've been out etc we might find that we aren't actually compatible. Anyways I will play it cool.. Still waiting for her to reply in my request for her phone #.. I will keep you all posted. MixweLL
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