mlh5046 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 My gf broke up with me 2 months ago, she is seeing another guy now and I have been practicing NC. Saw her at a bar she was with the dude, who just seems like a rebound trying to fill the void. I still cant get over her but I am really playing it cool. But she said she wanted to get lunch and for me to call her. So I did and she said at first she couldn't go to lunch because she was busy, then she said we should go to dinner. Then she kept changing where she wanted to go for dinner cuz she said she had no money and she was tired. She said she will call next week to go out for lunch, I mean she approached me about the whole thing, I just don't get it right now. If she does want to go should I just say "Nah sorry Im busy maybe some other time", as to not show I am desperate for her in my life, or should I go and act all cool like im over her, as a friend and show her I am more mature? Maybe will that start to build up the attraction that I lost in her? She broke up with me because I was immature and I liked to party with my buds instead of hang out with her, she was really attached to me but now that shes gone I really miss her and I want to change for the better and I think she might be trying to get through to me. I don't know. I really could use a tip !!!!!Thanks.
BackonTrack2 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 she's physco and being self-ish, don't agree to lunches, your hurt, don't speak to her, don't contact her, what she's thinking is...... "damn, i'm bored, i wonder if X will take me out", let me call HIM RING RING "Hey, I broke your heart and i'm fawking another man but lets do lunch, k" YOU "Sure sweety" Her "damn, i've changed my mind, i wonder whats on TV" YOU "i am going crazy, i will seek help from the internet"
Author mlh5046 Posted March 2, 2009 Author Posted March 2, 2009 haha ur right man, but love is love, its more powerful than anything, and i know its there, im a loser on here now haha
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