SWEET26 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 I have been with my boyfriens for about 3 years now. About a year into the relationship I figured out that he was talking to another female. And saw that he would talk to her at times when I wasn't around. I didn't say anything to him cause I wasnt sure what the relationship was with him and her all I knew was that he spoke to her her on the phone cause we were togeather 24/7. So about 6 months later.........seeing that he would be stilll talking to her whenever I wasn't around one day he left his phone home and went out. it was also off. so i turned it on and there was voice messages. i pressed the voice mail button and I hear the female say " hi baby its me &*() and I am coming on the 10 oclock train can't wait to see you". Now from me studing to be a PI.......I put what ever I know togeather and whatever he has told me about his past. See men forget sometimes how much they speack of thier lives and to a person that never forgets what is told to her can be very useful in the future. so hearing the message i call he back right away and i ask her who she is and she says she is a friend and to tell him to call her i hung up the ohone and i called him on his second phone and i related the message first he is very upset that i turned on his phone then he is telling me off. he comes home and says she is no one and thats it not really defending himself or tring to explain who she is which i knew exactly who she was already. I contacted her a few months down the line cause I was ready to have his child and before I gave birth it was something I needed to clear off my mind and he is definitly not the type to talk about it. if something happens he never talks about it just brushes it off and moves on like if there is no feeling involves which is never true for a female we always get emotional for some reason. so i contact her asking her what was the extent of the relationship and why was it he only spoke to her once in a blue. she claimed they were just friends never kissed never messed around. Nothing at all. for me ok she said her side and him i never heard his side. but for a man to hide a relationship with female that is absolutley nothing there and not talk to her infront of me and hide the phone whats up with that do you think there was something going on and not what she says?
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 If she wants him for herself, then she will lie, lie, lie, deny, deny, deny. I wouldn't trust her word any more than I would his.
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