Rhode Island Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Ok here it is. I went out with my best friend Fri night. We ended up meeting up with her ex, whom she is friendly with and 2 of his friends. Well, I thought his friend, Greg (he is single) was very attractive and seemed really nice. We met them at a sports bar, and he bought me a drink. My friend told me he is very shy, which he was a little quiet. But we all kinda talked as a group. The plan for me and her was just to stop at this bar and than we were going to a club to dance. Before we left, I suggested that the guys should meet us there. They didn't really meet the dress code, but they said they would go home and change and meet us there.On the way to the club, her ex calls and says he isn't really in a clubbing mood and won't be going. I was bummed cause I figured I wouldn't be seeing Greg. So I had my friend tell her ex over the phone, that I thought Greg was very cute and that he should meet us, even though her ex wasn't going. I figured he wouldn't come alone, so I didn't get my hopes up. So her and I went to the club and after an hour, here comes Greg! He went home changed, fixed his hair, and came ALONE. So he got a beer and soon after grabbed my hand and we went to the dance floor. Him and I danced on and off for almost 2 hours. We couldn't talk that much, because the music was so loud. But for me there was a pretty good attraction. I thought we hit it off for what we had to work with. But than comes the end of the night, we go to our cars and he didn't ask for my phone number! I didn't understand. My friend made it quite clear, he seemed interested in me, because he did come to the club alone. Now he can in contact with me pretty easily through my bestfriend, but I just figured he would have asked. I had a pretty good buzz and chickened out of even asking for his number and just said "It was nice to meet you" I'm afraid I came across as kinda cold, because I got a little nervous. I spoke with my friend today and just asked her to give my number to her ex, who can pass it to Greg and see if he uses it.. My question is - Does that mean he isn't interested, if he didn't ask for it , that night? Should I have my friend, pass it on and see if he calls? I didn't mean to post twice, I thought I could delete previous post. oops.
bean1 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 If he is interested, he will ask his friend. If you have to chase him, then he wasn't that interested in the first place.
D-Lish Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 If he is interested, he will ask his friend. If you have to chase him, then he wasn't that interested in the first place. This is true... Don't chase. If he is interested, he will do the investigating and asking his friend to get your number.
sb129 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 I think its good that you didn't ask for his number or give him yours straight up. Let him do the work! He's shy, but can't be that shy if he turned up alone!
bean1 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 He's shy, but can't be that shy if he turned up alone! Very true! I think a lot of girls confuse an uninterested man with a shy one. They make excuses for a man's behaviour as being "shy". Lord knows I've done it in the past! Bit of a tangent here
Author Rhode Island Posted March 2, 2009 Author Posted March 2, 2009 I'm not going to be able to get in touch with my friend for a few days...so I think the next time we speak, she would have already passed along my number.... Now I'm regretting doing that.
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