ans562 Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 I dated a girl for three months who just ended up disapperaing on me. We live in different cities so it was very easy for her to do. She sent me an email today saying she wants to catch up. I would really like to talk to her I am just afraid it is going to hurt. I really liked this girl and feel as though she led me on to believe it was more than it was. Is this a good idea for me to talk to her later this week?
miss-jem-bishop Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 well this is all on how you feel.. maybe asking her some questions would help? if you feel you are heeling from getting hurt and you dont wanna get bck in contact cause u feel it will hurt you more than i suggest you dont do it. x
BCCA Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I dated a girl for three months who just ended up disapperaing on me The old Houdini. I think we've all experienced this at one time or another. She wants to catch up? Wow, so shes kind of skimming right past that whole "I totally went ghost on you" thing, huh? did she even apologize? The definition of insanity is trying the same thing and expecting different results. I can bet that if you let her back in your life, shes gonna pull the same crap again, Ive litterally seen it happen. Ask yourself how much respect you could have for someone that you would date them for 3 months, and just dissapear. Not say a word, not give a reason, not end things...just bail. I wouldnt even respond to the email, personally.
Island Girl Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 The old Houdini. I think we've all experienced this at one time or another. She wants to catch up? Wow, so shes kind of skimming right past that whole "I totally went ghost on you" thing, huh? did she even apologize? The definition of insanity is trying the same thing and expecting different results. I can bet that if you let her back in your life, shes gonna pull the same crap again, Ive litterally seen it happen. Ask yourself how much respect you could have for someone that you would date them for 3 months, and just dissapear. Not say a word, not give a reason, not end things...just bail. I wouldnt even respond to the email, personally. I agree with the above. I have been this girl in a matter of speaking. Disappearing because someone else who was more attractive, interesting, etc. (fill in the blank) appeared but then when it didn't work out I wanted to go back to the other for whatever it was (attention, emotional support, etc.). And none of that was enough to stop it from happening again when the opportunity presented itself. Just don't go there. Be happy you found out she is a girl with issues that should not be trusted with you feelings in any way. FORGET HER. FORGET THE E-MAIL. Your best course of action is to pretend she does not exist.
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