My boyfriend is ignoring me... and its making me ill

[ismile_931]

Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and about 8 months, the last 8 months of which we have both been at uni. We arent that far apart but its still difficult to visit due to clashes of timetables etc, so its been stressful on both of us but we phoned each other at least every other day and texted all the time.

 

However for the last little while hes been 'missing' texts and phonecalls for a week or so at a time and for the last 3 weeks Ive had no contact at all. I figured it might be an actual phone problem so Ive tried emails and even facebook but still no response, and I know he must have got the facebook message as hes very active on there with his other friends just not responding to me...

 

I just cant think of anything I did wrong, and for some reason that makes it worse. I just cant think of anyway to sort this out.

 

Its making me moodier around friends and is affecting my studies because Im now suffering from insomnia. Because Im not sleeping, Ive lost my appetite and anything I do eat I cant keep down. I know this isnt just because of him, Im aware Im probably overreacting but that doesnt really help...

[bean1]

No contact for 3 weeks in a nearly 2 year relationship, but he's still talking with friends? You think you are overreacting? I'm sorry he's doing it this way, but clearly this relationship is over.

[Geishawhelk]

I think the reason he's ignoring you, is because there's someone else distracting him.

It's a crappy way of finding out, but I bet it's the case.

 

Either try to confront him head on, or accept it.

 

It's either or, I'm afraid.

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Your drifting apart it happens hard to deal with but nothing much you can do unless you want to make it official and end the relationship maybe that would be easer for you?

[lovestory5]

Forgive about him. He has another gilr or interests. Your emotions are right, try to live another life. Belive she has contacts with his friends still. Don't wear pink glasses.

[whichwayisup]

Delete and block him from facebook. Block his email address and try to heal yourself.

 

Instead of him openly talking to you, or ending the relationship, he's gone to into a-hole mode and his silent treatment is his way of letting you know it's over. He's a real jerk and doesn't deserve to have you in his life...