Rhode Island Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 Ok here it is. I went out with my best friend Fri night. We ended up meeting up with her ex, whom she is friendly with and 2 of his friends. Well, I thought his friend, Greg (he is single) was very attractive and seemed really nice. We met them at a sports bar, and he bought me a drink. My friend told me he is very shy, which he was a little quiet. But we all kinda talked as a group. The plan for me and her was just to stop at this bar and than we were going to a club to dance. Before we left, I suggested that the guys should meet us there. They didn't really meet the dress code, but they said they would go home and change and meet us there.On the way to the club, her ex calls and says he isn't really in a clubbing mood and won't be going. I was bummed cause I figured I wouldn't be seeing Greg. So I had my friend tell her ex over the phone, that I thought Greg was very cute and that he should meet us, even though her ex wasn't going. I figured he wouldn't come alone, so I didn't get my hopes up. So her and I went to the club and after an hour, here comes Greg! He went home changed, fixed his hair, and came ALONE. So he got a beer and soon after grabbed my hand and we went to the dance floor. Him and I danced on and off for almost 2 hours. We couldn't talk that much, because the music was so loud. But for me there was a pretty good attraction. I thought we hit it off for what we had to work with. But than comes the end of the night, we go to our cars and he didn't ask for my phone number! I didn't understand. My friend made it quite clear, he seemed interested in me, because he did come to the club alone. Now he can in contact with me pretty easily through my bestfriend, but I just figured he would have asked. I had a pretty good buzz and chickened out of even asking for his number and just said "It was nice to meet you" I'm afraid I came across as kinda cold, because I got a little nervous. I spoke with my friend today and just asked her to give my number to her ex, who can pass it to Greg and see if he uses it.. My question is - Does that mean he isn't interested, if he didn't ask for it , that night? Should I have my friend, pass it on and see if he calls?
Author Rhode Island Posted March 2, 2009 Author Posted March 2, 2009 I forgot to add that earlier in the night, my friend's ex asked me, if I was seeing anyone. I don't know if he was asking for Greg, because he wasn't asking for himself...
colosseum Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 how shy is "very shy"? Because the shy type often goes to clubs and bars but never gets the courage to ask the girl for her #s. What did you sense? Clearly he's not shy enough to not dance...
fishtaco Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 He's shy. This is expected. This is why it's difficult to date people that are shy. One way is you have to be the aggressor. You have to throw yourself at him. The problem is, a shy person's reaction can easily be confused with someone that is not interested. So basically it's going to feel like you're forcing yourself on him. But is he still just shy? Did he lose interest? You don't know. How far do you push? Tricky judgment call.
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