moman Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 A few years ago I wrote about this girl I was seeing, chasing, and completely misreading. She had an ex issue, and just couldn't decide between him and I. I finally got the strength to make her decision for you and this is how it went: 5/2007 - initiated NC. She emailed me and called to find out why I hadn't been calling, I was polite in telling her I was busy. Didn't call her for her bday, which drove her nuts. 9/2007 - 11/2007 - she starts calling me every Saturday night or texting me, I never, not once respond. I start getting weekly emails about how much fun we used to have and that she wants to cook. I decline the invitation. 1/2008-8/2008 - I had another girlfriend and told her and she didn't inititate much conversation. I told her in August that we had separated. 8/2008-12/2008 - She starts calling on a weekly basis inviting me out for drinks/dinner, movies, etc. I decline every time. Just this month I finally agreed to meet her for a few drinks to catch up. I felt nothing for her and we had a nice conversation. She has called me 2-3x per week every since trying to find things we can do together, but I'm dating someone else so it won't happen. She knows this too, but it seems to make her try harder. It's amazing that in two years I have totally turned the tables on her.
smile_through_tears Posted March 2, 2009 Posted March 2, 2009 she must either really like u or just really like the chase
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