colosseum Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 College. Got dumped 2 months ago. Fiddled around about a month ago, then called it off for good. Said we'll be cordial. Have been single a good month+ and have been doing well. Context? We see each other once-/twice-a-week because we're in a capella together. Issue? I tried being cordial soon after break, but she wasn't responsive. Now she's being really responsive. Like, really responsive. Just to see, I deliberately didn't interact with her for an entire meeting; she ended up initiating with a bright smile and a good decent amount of talk which isn't very common from her. Her personality? Reserved, calm, soft-spoken, not the type to be very outgoing in initiating conversations/meeting people. I feel like I'm psyching myself out. I'm over this girl, right? Is she really just trying to be cordial, or is it the "ex-effect"? Part of me obviously submits to that ex-effect; I want the good old days. But a part of me is saying that I'm psyching myself out, that I'm over her, that I'm better than this. What's going on?
Excellent Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 I would tread carefully on this one. Make sure you are certain about her intentions before you get too responsive. If you are thinking about getting her back, then let her chase you for a while. If she asks you out, let it be on your terms, then you will see where her intentions lie.
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