mouse52 Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 Hello- I need some insight. I have gone on 3 dates in 2 weeks with this guy. Since we've met, we've called/texted almost every day. Our last date was Tuesday, when we parted, he said "talk to you tomorrow." I haven't heard from him since then. I texted him Thursday and nothing. He specifically said "I like you." If he likes me, why the cold shoulder all the sudden?
turtle32 Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 well im dealing with same thing started dating this girl a couple times acted like she was crazy about me always compimenting me we was suppose to meet this weekend and she tld me she had t d smething saturday and wuld meeet me n sunday i was smewhat dissappinted and she knew it she called me on thusday night i was at a game and ddiint hear phne ring think it upset her i called her back n anwser text her a few times nthing and emailed her twice and nothing and now it is sat night and havent heard from her cant figure it out dont know what i should do leave her be and not contact her again or try t?
DrumMajor13 Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 super wish someone wise would answer this post! LOL, i'm having the same situation!
BobSacamento Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 I would assume he met someone else and move on. It's hard but that's dating for you.
chrislovestosurf Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 are you really going to exhaust yourself with all the possibilites that could explain why he didnt call?
SpanksTheMonkey Posted March 8, 2009 Posted March 8, 2009 Um maybe he got injured or something and cant call?
Zorie Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 Same thing happened to me not that long ago someone I went out with a few times (things seemed to be going great) just fell off the face of the earth like that POOF never to be heard from again... It sucks but it happens, and sometimes people change thier minds and are too p**** to do the honest thing and you just get blown off. Its not worth wondering why he isnt contacting you anymore, write it off as a case of hes just not that into you anymore. It speaks volumes of someones personality, and if they can do that to you they arent worth dating IMO.
birdmadgirl Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 Same thing just happened to me, only I had an inkling before I even agreed to see the individual that it would turn out that way. Ah, the things we do to ourselves... I would agree with those who have said it's because he's not into you. It sounds harsh, but don't take it personally. He just wasn't right for you, and it's a complete waste of time to pick apart what you did/didn't do or what you could have done differently/better to keep him interested. Flakes aren't just for breakfast anymore. Smile, let this one go, and find someone who isn't so wishy-washy. It would be fantastic if people could be honest about what it is they want, even if the truth isn't what we want to hear.
EYECANDY000 Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 The whole point of dating is to get to know someone! Maybe after the third date he realized that there was no connection. You two has only been on three dates, he doesn't owe you an explanation. Granted, that would be great if he told you that he didn't get a connection for you, but he barely know you. If if told you he likes you then he may have been saying it to be nice and not hurt your feelings. Don't take peoples comments so critical! If you called already and no response then forget about him. Move on!
Recommended Posts