BobSacamento Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 I'll start this off by saying I'm relatively plastered. But seriously the bar scene is weak. I am 5 10 and 174. I think I am relatively decent looking. Like I'm not morbidly obese or anything. Like I have good teeth and no bad acne lets say. So anyway the bar scene is brutal. Like I'd say it is 75% dudes. One of my friends who was looking for a new GF, stand up guy lol (honestly total d bag), bailed by 10:30, realized this early. It's not to good out there. Like making first contact was brutal. I was trying to make good eye contact with a girl and couldn't get anything. Honestly, the bar scene to me seems dead. It seems to be a place for couples or people who are looking to get ****faced. But GIRLS seriously if your looking for RAGING alchoholics, check out the bar scene. Lots of winners.
alphamale Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 I'll start this off by saying I'm relatively plastered. But seriously the bar scene is weak. I am 5 10 and 174. I think I am relatively decent looking. Like I'm not morbidly obese or anything. Like I have good teeth and no bad acne lets say. So anyway the bar scene is brutal. Like I'd say it is 75% dudes. One of my friends who was looking for a new GF, stand up guy lol (honestly total d bag), bailed by 10:30, realized this early. It's not to good out there. Like making first contact was brutal. I was trying to make good eye contact with a girl and couldn't get anything. Honestly, the bar scene to me seems dead. It seems to be a place for couples or people who are looking to get ****faced. But GIRLS seriously if your looking for RAGING alchoholics, check out the bar scene. Lots of winners. maybe you should start another more understandable thread once teh booze wears off
allina Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 I'll start this off by saying I'm relatively plastered. But seriously the bar scene is weak. But GIRLS seriously if your looking for RAGING alchoholics, check out the bar scene. Lots of winners. Like you? Got it thanks. While I never went to bard to meet men I have chatted with quite a few back when I was single. Some were very confident, quality, fun guys.
clv0116 Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 While I never went to bard to meet men I have chatted with quite a few back when I was single. Some were very confident, quality, fun guys. A shocking number of singer/poets are pretty creative and interesting.
allina Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 A shocking number of singer/poets are pretty creative and interesting. Absolutely, though I meant to say "bar."
clv0116 Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 Absolutely, though I meant to say "bar." I just love when typos still make sense.
Gunny376 Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 None of what I'm about to post is an "absolute" rule ~ but more like generalizations. You can meet women any and everywhere. Freaking WalMart for or anywhere else. Men check out women and women check out men. If your out and about the town, and you make eye contact with a woman, and can hold it for that split second, and she smiles, she's possibly open to speaking with you? That's when you use the world's single greatest pick-up line ever invented ~ "Hi!" And then take it from there. Ask about the weather, make some comment about the economy, the price of cabbage, whatever? If she engages you in conversation (especially about such a silly subject as the price of cabbage? She's interested in getting to know more about you and perhaps about getting to know you better. Most women are going to take the "passive" role, because they've been socially and culturally conditioned (primarily by other women) to be cautious of being or appearing to be sluts? Thus the "anti-slut" resistance that you must over-come. And you can't really blame them for in the end they're human beings and want the same things that all men and women ~ aka ~ human beings want? To be respected, admired, treated with dignity and respect, and not be used and abused as a piece of meat for someone Eles personal pleasure and then discarded. Use tact ~ the simple art of speaking to and treating others the way that you would want to be treated if you were them? Use common damn sense? If a woman is out with a "pack" its probably just a good bunch of friends out with their friends out to have a good time? If she's out with just a friend or two? She's probably available ~ women almost never travel or venture out to clubs alone? If she's casually dressed in jeans and whatever with a minimum of makeup and bling? She's probably already got a steady boyfriend or married and just out with the "single" GF that's looking for a BF? If she's dressed to impress? She's looking. (Or could be that she's just got really good fashion sense and/or takes personal pride in her day-to-day appearance?) When all is said and done at the end of the day, its a numbers game? And your going to "bomb out" more than you succeed. Get use to it. I once sold cars, and for every one-hundred people you speak with about selling cars, your going to feature and benefit four, out of the four you might "close" one. Ditto with the dating scene! Your going to fail with most 96% of the time! Of the 4% you've got a chance with? Your going to close 1! But, that's all your looking for right? The "one" Screw the other 99%! And the product your selling? Is yourself? If you had a car for sell, what would you do? You detail the hell out of it, wash it, clean it, vacuum it, shampoo the carpet, wax it, etc? What have you done for yourself? Taken dance lessons? Joined a gym and gone religiously five times a week? Taken tanning sessions? Got a serious haircut from a serious stylist? Lost a few pounds? Gotten rid of your beer gut? Gotten your teeth whitened with lasers? Been to a dentist? Quit smoking? Quit dipping? Up-dated your wardrobe? Read a book or two about men, women's wants need, desires? Read a book or two about what women want and need? Read a book about rommance? A book about dating? A book about body language? A book about seduction? A book about what women worry about? A book about women's view on sex? And finally quit going home from a bar drunk complaining about why you went home drunk without a GF? I like soft ice vanillia ice cream from Freaking Dairy Queen, but when I go fishing? I know that crappie and bass like grasshoppers, crickets and worms! That's why I don't fish with Vanilla Ice Cream!
Green Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 And finally quit going home from a bar drunk complaining about why you went home drunk without a GF? I like soft ice vanillia ice cream from Freaking Dairy Queen, but when I go fishing? I know that crappie and bass like grasshoppers, crickets and worms! That's why I don't fish with Vanilla Ice Cream! Great post this guy needs to realise that a bar isn't the only place he can meet women and getting drunk certainly doesn't help... Saying this guy is fishing with ice cream is to kind I think he puked on his hook and is hoping the scent will be enough to get something to bite. Seriously man put some planning and effort into your love life and don't get so easily hurt by so called rejection not that you said any girls actualy rejected you just that the place you went was mostly men and couples and that your friend sux
Dawn26 Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 Bars are not the best place to look for "gf's". Hang out elsewhere if your looking for something serious.
Eweezy Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 They were probably more girls checking you out, but you were busy checking for one girl like you were going to marry her that night. I'am tired of people ranting on bars when they dont have success. Do not blame the bars blame yourself because they are plenty of other people that have success with bars. Be a man stop being a female.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I don't think bars should be your #1 priority when you have to worry about keeping your shirt clean from other people's vomit.
Star Gazer Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 You know, something has been driving me NUTS since I first saw you post, OP. Isn't your name supposed to be BobSacramento?
xpaperxcutx Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 You know, something has been driving me NUTS since I first saw you post, OP. Isn't your name supposed to be BobSacramento? My, SG, what good observations you have.
IrishCarBomb Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 You know, something has been driving me NUTS since I first saw you post, OP. Isn't your name supposed to be BobSacramento? I think he's going for Bob Sacamano, the strange character Kramer always mentioned on Seinfeld.
Star Gazer Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I think he's going for Bob Sacamano, the strange character Kramer always mentioned on Seinfeld. Ahhh... Okay then.
Peter_pan Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 yeah you wont pull in a bar. where are the best places? ive heard book shop, library, supermarket, street who knows lol
Art_Critic Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 Move to Atlanta, The women to men ration here is 4:1 I've never met a decent woman in a bar.. I'm sure they exist but when you throw loud music in with crowds and tons of booze you can't figure out who is who.
Eweezy Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 You know, something has been driving me NUTS since I first saw you post, OP. Isn't your name supposed to be BobSacramento? Another internet geek. SG, do you have to be a personal spell geek? Also you can pull anywhere, whoever says you can't pull in a bar that means that THEY never pulled in a bar before.
LovieDove24 Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 I have given up on the bar scene as far as meeting quality, datable men. If I'm just looking for a quick make out partner, mayyybe But seriously, despite my personal choice, it is quite possible to meet someone in the bar. Assuming one or both parties aren't smashed. If that is the case, forget it. Thats just not attractive. Just as I assume I'm not so attractive either when I've had one to many. It's pointless at that point.
Author BobSacamento Posted March 9, 2009 Author Posted March 9, 2009 Yes pointless is a good way to put it. Also even if I go cruising with buddies, one is bound to get smashed and make an ass out of himself and/or start a fight. It is fun though lol.
boxing123 Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 AC 4:1? Come on now.. Atlanta has about 4 million people.. You are saying over 3 million are women? I have heard dateless women say it is 10:1, but they say that to make themselves feel better. It is about 50.7% women, 49.3% men.
mikesierra Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 I'm with loviedove on this one. if you're going to get girls at a bar, it's a quick hookup. but really, why are you staring at a girl all night waiting for something to happen? you're right, the guy to girl ratio at a bar is not in your favor, and half of the other guys are doing the same thing, sitting there, staring at the same girl. so can you really blame her? maybe you should try talking to her. usually it's not too difficult to tell whether the girl is there to have fun with someone specifically or just randomly.
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