Luis2623 Posted February 27, 2009 Posted February 27, 2009 my ex broke up with me just cuz we fought alot as of late. Now shes sayed that she has moved on and wants to have fun with other guys. Im 20 and shes about to turn 19. Last night i tryed talking to her and asked if she still found me attractive. Her responds was "yeah your cute but your not my type anymore, i want to be with a tall, southern gentelman, that is athletic. I asked her why she was with me for more than 2 1/2 years then and her respose was that s*** happens. That was the most conceded and shallow think that i ever heard come from her mouth. After that i was pretty much done trying to wait for her. Do you think that she will try to comeback after sometime. I mean i wasn't a jerk to her i loved her with everything i had, but i guess she has to see for herself if there is someone better than me out there. my friends all say that she going through a phase right now.
troubadour Posted February 27, 2009 Posted February 27, 2009 No Louis... she is not comming back. She has made it quite clear. After all she is only 19 and it is the right time for her to explore being a single girl.
EmperorR Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 YOur better off trust me, my ex told me crap like that after 3 years she wants someone her parents would like and how she wasn't attracted to m anymore. Forget her man one day I gurantee she will look back and be like oh crap what did I do but by then you will be with someone better and want nothing to do with her.
paperchase Posted March 1, 2009 Posted March 1, 2009 My highschool sweetheart dumped me right before college with similar lame excuses although not as harsh. 15 years later she's now married and constantly offering me sex telling me what a mistake she made. I humor her with casual conversation all the while wondering what did I ever see in her. But listen, man, she's probably not coming back. She's too young and too inexperienced. This aint the old days when you find your mate at 15 and you become a man at 18. You could have been perfect and still found yourself here. You could have been a Rhodes Scholar supermodel division 1 bball player and it wouldn't matter. Once you get over the pain, the fact that she personally attacked you with those meanspirited comments should give you strength and help you to resent her.
Surfer Dude Posted March 10, 2009 Posted March 10, 2009 My ex also said she wanted to just have fun and enjoy being with other guys, and that there was no way she'd get married before 30. She got married two months later. Go figure. Most women's values are built on sand. Don't treat anything she says seriously. Just treat her as an immature child, which she is.
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