onryo13 Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 just wanted to ask some of the members if they have any advice for me i recently started adding a lot of freinds on facebook, going through my UNI group i could see quite a few faces, one i didnt who i thought looked interesting (not to sound like thats all im after lol). so i added her and sent a message asking if shed like to go for a drink sometime. so i went down and we had a few drinks after she finished her work, we seemed to get on well, looking each other in the eyes alot, talked very frankly about experiences in foreign lands. after the date i sent her a message saying "id love to meet you again, i do understand that there are problems at home that you may need some time alone or so, hopefully hear from you again soon x" as when we talked about the next meeting at the end of the first date she mentioned that it might not be for a while as she has "big problems at home" (which i guessed to mean back in her home country. she replied "it was nice to meet you too, defo give me a shout when you are free and we will arrange something x" so she mentioned that she might be coming through to my town to see some freinds for a bday party, in the end she txtmed me saying that she cant as she was "curing her hangover from yesterday" which is fair enough. so we arranged for her to come through again on a thursday free day that she has from work as she needed to do some uni stuff as well here, so i booked a half day off work just to see her and then get this txt "hiya, im in luton now but to tell you the truth im still very ill so dont feel like doing anything, hope its ok with you. sorry. x" (she had the cold on monday) am i being blown off? or just uber paranoid like most first dates? should i cut contact or do what i was going to do and say "its cool, we can meet again anouther time when your feeling better" anyhoo, cheers people
Author onryo13 Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 so shes just "not that into me" lol? ah well big shame so she is not interested? then why go through the game of booking dates?
alphamale Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 so she is not interested? then why go through the game of booking dates? because thats the way women are
Surfer Dude Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Having a cold or a headache is one of the most common excuses girls throw when they try to bail. She might have a real cold, but there's no way to know. Talk to other girls and you'll never get flustered about just one. so she is not interested? then why go through the game of booking dates? Perhaps she felt like dating you when she agreed to see you. Her feelings might've changed later. Who cares, you can't get inside her head.
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