OCCDAVE Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Im getting ready for bed and i noticed i got a new text from my ex.I figured no biggie ill delete it like i always do but here is what it said. Dont leave cards at my house(I was like huh at this point considering i didnt even go near her house nore did i leave anything why should i)the rest of the text said this We are not together and im with alex(remember the one i said who was using her for sex)i dont want to be with you and were not getting back together alex and are are exclusive this time (first off i was beyond laughing you mean to tell me ur willing to put ur trust in a guy whos admit to only wanting you for sex) Anyway my reply was this cause i was pissed Dont flatter yourself i dont want to get back with you ever and you can date whoever you want.I have someone who im happy with and ur not gonna get in the way of that (bs but she doesnt know) i dont care and i dont have time for your childish games goodbye and leave me alone Here reply was goodbye to you to lol ugh why pour salt on my wound i know it was to spark a reaction but now im crying:( I got no reply
PinkToes Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Maybe she was hoping Alex would see what she wrote to you... and get jealous. Either that or she's just delusional. She sounds kinda messed up. And cruel!
sad_panda Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 They are delusional sometimes, our dumpers. My ex pestered my sister about a mysterious texter/missed caller he had a few days after we broke up. He wanted to know if I changed my number and if I was the one stalking him like that. It's funny how he automatically assumed it was me, when: 1.) Strangers text/call him all the time because he runs an online store. He also had his share of prank texters/callers because his number is listed for everyone to see on his eBay store. 2.) I never changed my number. 3.) I told him explicitly on the night we broke up that my begging was a one-time offer only, that he would never hear from me again, that I would cut all ties of communication with him, and that I would disappear from his life forever. I laughed at his accusation when my sister told me about it, but it got me pissed off, too. But he never heard from me, not a single reaction. It was my sister who pointedly told him that I had no reason to contact him, and that he should leave me alone.
EmperorR Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Have you thought about changing your number?
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 They are delusional sometimes, our dumpers. My ex pestered my sister about a mysterious texter/missed caller he had a few days after we broke up. He wanted to know if I changed my number and if I was the one stalking him like that. It's funny how he automatically assumed it was me, when: 1.) Strangers text/call him all the time because he runs an online store. He also had his share of prank texters/callers because his number is listed for everyone to see on his eBay store. 2.) I never changed my number. 3.) I told him explicitly on the night we broke up that my begging was a one-time offer only, that he would never hear from me again, that I would cut all ties of communication with him, and that I would disappear from his life forever. I laughed at his accusation when my sister told me about it, but it got me pissed off, too. But he never heard from me, not a single reaction. It was my sister who pointedly told him that I had no reason to contact him, and that he should leave me alone.So was i wrong to reply the way i did cause i was beyond mad.The main reason she claimed she had feelings for me like a week and half and she broke things off with alex now shes with him ?I am beyond lucky i didnt fall for her trap and take her having feelings for me and say ya maybe we can work it out cause look what would have happened.I wont change my number cause ive had it forever and shes not worth it.
Tryng2Trust08 Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Im telling you it's all a game with her. You are better than this and do not need her. If she continues to text you, block her messages, then you will never hear from her again. Im sure you still have feelings for her, that's ok, but she has disrepected you in many ways.
msjules Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Dave, the one thing you do NOT seem to be doing is telling her to stop contacting you. She is hurting you with malice, ON PURPOSE, don't you get that? Hurt her back and start healing at the same time. Tell her to stop and mean it. That is the advice msjules has for ya.
sad_panda Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 So was i wrong to reply the way i did cause i was beyond mad. It doesn't matter if what you did was wrong or right. I wouldn't have replied if I were you, but some people would. It's all subjective. Just don't be too hard on yourself if someone does tell you that what you did was wrong. Heartbroken people are vulnerable. Don't change your number. Just block hers. Tell her to leave you alone, or get someone else to do it for you if you really don't want to be in touch with her.
openbook08 Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 jesus, even I wish shed p1ss off and I dont even know her. sorry for you & ((HUGS))
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 Well my reply was pretty much telling her to leave me alone.I am just mad u tell me u have feelings for me and u text that
Truly Lost Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Sorry you are getting caught up in the exchange of nasty text messages. It would have been better not to have replied to her last text at all. It doesn't matter if you left cards at her house or not. I understand your want to tell her it wasn't you, but now its just getting nasty and you don't feel any better for it. The only texts you should reply to are the ones from the new girl you will eventually meet.
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 Sorry you are getting caught up in the exchange of nasty text messages. It would have been better not to have replied to her last text at all. It doesn't matter if you left cards at her house or not. I understand your want to tell her it wasn't you, but now its just getting nasty and you don't feel any better for it. The only texts you should reply to are the ones from the new girl you will eventually meet. Thing that makes me angry she said she has feelings for me what if I would have been weak and opened up to her I would have gotten hurt once again.you are moving on and hve someone just let me be sigh
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