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I'm in my senior year in HS and I'm 18 years old. I'm easily one of the most popular kids in school and I've gotten laid several times. The thing is just recently I started going out with a girl that I've always really wanted to go out with.

 

I'm really in love with her...She's something else and its driving me crazy

 

Every time I go out with her I get really nervous. I don't know why the ****

 

It has never happened to me

 

I'm seriously in love with this girl

 

I rally need some tips

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Um... fairly vague.

 

Obviously your doing something right if she's into you, what makes you think you need tips?

 

The only tip I can give you from your post... Girls like when a guy is sensitive, its a good thing, but they want their man to be a man. For myself, stepping back and making sure i have sufficient bro/alone time just really helped, if you infatuate yourself with this chick its gonna push the relationship into warp drive. At that point its accelerating so fast that the most minor thing can derail you.

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Um... fairly vague.

 

Obviously your doing something right if she's into you, what makes you think you need tips?

 

The only tip I can give you from your post... Girls like when a guy is sensitive, its a good thing, but they want their man to be a man. For myself, stepping back and making sure i have sufficient bro/alone time just really helped, if you infatuate yourself with this chick its gonna push the relationship into warp drive. At that point its accelerating so fast that the most minor thing can derail you.

 

 

I'm pretty infatuated but I don't show it much...In the weekend i rarely see her because I go clubbing with my buddies.

 

I'm just really afraid to mess it up

 

Plus she's playing really hard to get and that makes me feel stupid and want to drink a lot

 

I know that if it doesn't work out its not the end of the world...but I've known this girl for about 8 years and I'm seriously in love with her

 

 

****

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Tip 1 - Learn Humility. You won't always be the most popular kid around.

 

Tip 2 - being nervous is good, it means she is important to you.

 

Tip 3 - Stop Bragging (got laid several times !!)

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Tip 4 - stop drinking so much.

 

Tip 5 - Ask her out instead of 'going clubbing with your buddies'

 

Tip 6 - Realise that if you've known her for 8 years and your 18 now you were 10 when you first knew her, are you just long term friends ?

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