Woggle Posted February 27, 2009 Posted February 27, 2009 I know Chrome's comments seem harsh but men who have been on the receiving end of this cheating have very little sympathy for these women. What about sympathy for the guy who does his best to be a good husband and father only to be betrayed by the woman he thought loved him? Is he just chopped liver? Many men are just sick and tired of women like this acting like they are the victim when they are really not.
White Flower Posted February 27, 2009 Posted February 27, 2009 I know Chrome's comments seem harsh but men who have been on the receiving end of this cheating have very little sympathy for these women. What about sympathy for the guy who does his best to be a good husband and father only to be betrayed by the woman he thought loved him? Is he just chopped liver? Many men are just sick and tired of women like this acting like they are the victim when they are really not. I understand what you mean. But what if you were forced to marry the girl next door by your parents? Could you really see yourself truly loving this girl? It's a crap shoot; you could get lucky and then again you might not.
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 27, 2009 Posted February 27, 2009 They'd better beat me with a lead pipe before forcing me to marry someone im not willing to marry of my own free will. Period. lol. I'm not trying to bash this woman but cheating was her choice. She has free will to indulge herself with cheating, she has free will to divorce. Simple as that. There's nothing to be complex about it. It's either she's gonna fix the problems or leave, the more she dwell on this OM right now without her husband having knowledge of her issues the marriage will always be tainted. The thing is I want her to know that the marriage is what you make it. The more you put in, the more you return and vice versa. If you lie, cheat, have walls up, become resentful, it then becomes a crappy marriage. but only in your eyes if you don't let your spouse know what's going on, he's probably gonna be blindsided thinking I thought: "we was happy?"
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