Am I being messed around?

[12ape]

Girlfriend ended it with me after 4 years, not long ago.

 

Chat conversation:

 

Sam

Hopefully you will find out soon. It's just a real shame that all that time spent with us together, it really meant something to me.

 

We can still sort out our differences if its positive.

 

x

 

Lyndsey

Today at 13:35

Yeh it meant alot to me too sam... but in the end all the bad things just kept going through my mind and i just lost that feeling i use to get with you... I dont want to get back with you just cuz you miss me and stuff or cuz i'm missing things... if i do get back with you it will be because i do still love you and want you...

 

I dont want to mess with your head so i need to sort mine out first... but for now my decision is staying the same

 

x

 

Sam

Today at 13:40

Well, all I can say really is that I love you and always have been happy with you on my side.

 

x

 

What should I do, I really miss her, I LOVE HER SO MUCH.

[Truly Lost]

Leave her alone. She told you she needs to sort things out for herself. If you continue to contact her it will push her away. Staying out of contact is not a guarantee that she will come back to you, but its better than annoying her. I'm sorry you are hurt, but it will get better over time. You'll see.

[12ape]

She means the world to me, never met so much of a nice and compatible person in my life.

 

We lost eachothers innocence, we were like best friends.. I don't want her to get hurt again, and I can't imagine of another man in her life... I would never be the same.

[12ape]

Silence is killing me, I just want to go over to her house and make things right.. I want her in my arms, I want her soft warm kiss pressed againts me...

[openbook08]

trust us.

give her the space she wants.

dont contact her.

its v v difficult but NOT impossible.

and you dont really have a choice.