Isolde Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 I seriously have the worst intuition ever. I never chose the right people to crush on. Hell, I never even dated anyone I crushed on for even a few weeks. I've never even known a guy I crushed on well enough to know if I really liked his personality! I'm terrible at reading signals. And when I do think I sense something for sure, I STILL doubt myself. I feel like everyone's telling me to be openminded and give things a chance and not be so serious and pedantic about all of it and yeah, I see what they mean. But funny enough, the more "openminded" I try to be, the more hopeless I feel; the more "picky" I allow myself to be, the better I feel. Part of me wants desperately to give up on dating (not give up on boys--difference!) I'm terrible at it, have little experience, never get approached, and so forth. It is time to turn a new leaf, and try something different.
Author Isolde Posted February 25, 2009 Author Posted February 25, 2009 I guess my question would be, But what do I do differently, now that I've decided that going out on dates isn't a possibility?
You'reasian Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 I guess my question would be, But what do I do differently, now that I've decided that going out on dates isn't a possibility? Continue to learn more about yourself, keep great friends and be patient. No need to rush into a relationship - timing is important. You'll meet someone by being yourself.
Author Isolde Posted February 25, 2009 Author Posted February 25, 2009 Continue to learn more about yourself' date=' keep great friends and be patient. No need to rush into a relationship - [b']timing is important[/b]. You'll meet someone by being yourself. Yes, a simple but good point. I've been historically bad with timing. You know--I'd tell someone I liked them just as they started dating someone else (I didn't know), or I'd meet someone before leaving town permanently.
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