whats up with this guy?

[sassy331]

Theres a guy i've liked for over a year and i'm going to state some facts below about the whole situation rather than getting into a story,and then all I want is the input of men on why he is like this,and even the input of woman of what they think and what they'd do

 

.He's 19,a virgin,never had a relationship in his life

.he's shy and unsure of himself

.i am very shy myself and rather reserved as a person

.i told him myself that i liked him(which took a lot of guts for me)

.after that he asked me if i wanted to hang out sometime(this was back in november)

.we got to hanging out and getting along really well

.after awhile near the end of november he changed his looking for profile on facebook to looking for friendship,dating and relationship(miniscule)

.we hung out alone quite a bit and he noted how well we got along together

.we got closer over new years,making out and a bit more

.he stayed at my apartment several times,in the same bed

.he told me he liked me,found me attractive,that he thought we were compatible etc

.then he started backing off!!!!!

.we havnt hung out alone in about a month but we still talk all the time on facebook (and we are in the same class)

.i wrote him a note a couple weeks ago relaying that i was confused,he knew i was into him and that whatever happens or doesnt happen now is up to him

.a couple days later he wrote me on msn and said he read my note and agreed with my statements

.i asked him which statements and why

.he wrote back on facebook a few days later that he doesn't know what to say.

.so i didnt write back at all

.then a couple days after that he wrote me and said he hoped I wasn't angry with him,he just didnt know what to say,and then he went on to say he doesnt like confrontation(altho i really only asked a few questions,im too quiet to really be avert about anything) and that he wasn't sure what he really wanted,then he put in brackets that sometimes he drives himself crazy and then he said maybe it's because he thinks too much.

 

.i am going to point out that he made a few attempts to talk to me in class but i didnt really respond all that great(im shy) and so we dont really talk in public (this may be a big issue,if we arent comfortable in public together)

 

.a few people are going camping next weekend and he planned the whole thing,he asked me to go and what i thought about the plans and all that...

 

.so basically im confused here,is he into me?is he not? is it me? is it him? haha...any input is great

[redant]

Maybe he is not sure about what he wants or if he is in to you but he definitely likes you as a person friend if he invited you to go camping. Just beacause a guy makes out with you and is attracted to you unfortunately does not mean they want you to be their gf. You need to have fun and not wait on his every word he is not giving you clear signals and it's not worth waiting for him to. Maybe u can meet someone or like someone knew on this camping trip.