monkophile Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 (This is not a good title for this, but LS wouldn't let me put down what I wanted) Okay, I had put up some posts about a friend of mine who is one of my former college professors and how I couldn't understand why he was ignoring me for about two months ever since we met for coffee while I was home for Christmas. I had been planning on sending an email to him in a couple weeks, just laying everything out there and hoping he would explain what's up. I checked my email this afternoon like usual and was floored when I saw an email from him. A couple weeks ago I had emailed him, telling him that where I'm living now it was 80s and sunny and asking where he is (and my hometown) if it was 20s and snowy. He asked me if I was going to be home for Easter (no, not til the summer), then thanked me for keeping in touch and ended by saying "it's been a rough term." I responded back, telling him it was good to hear from him and said "rough term" - are you okay? Anyhoo, this isn't necessarily a question; more like an observation that guys are so confusing!! Silence for almost two months to the day, then all of a sudden, out of the blue he emails me. What's up with that? I mean, I am soooo happy that he's talking to me again but so confused. Maybe he'll respond and explain what "rough term" means and then I'll have a better idea of what happened. Has anyone else had a problem with a guy where you just wanted to rip his (or your) hair out?
Enema Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 Maybe he found someone else interesting, but after 2 months it fell through, so he's fishing for his backup girl.
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