Peter_pan Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 cutting this one one short, saw my ex for first time in 12 months, up untill that point i had broke nc twice. anyway saw her, had general chit chat. then i had a go at her for how ****e it was the way she did what she did. she cried and ran off. cried on phone to her current bf (the one she went off with), note she never cheated. but one thing i will say, she didnt wait around. since then i emailed just askin if this was her email. and her bf emailed me back. i deleted it. didnt read it thats it to this day. i know she isnt coming back. i already know he is better than me, older runs a club etc. me, young student to be. no money.
samspade Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 What were you trying to prove by dressing her down over ancient history? You shouldn't have bothered meeting up with her in the first place. And that guy is only better than you if you believe he is.
Geishawhelk Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 What do you think 'NC' means....? It's implemented, permanently, precisely to avoid this kind of crap. Sorry dude, but your name says it all really. The little boy who wouldn't 'grow up'....? Think you need to mature a bit.... What you did was silly and unnecessary. I don't expect it really made you feel any better, did it?
Author Peter_pan Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 lol. you have me on that one she was out at a club i was at. made me feel better actually. much !
northstar1 Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 cutting this one one short, saw my ex for first time in 12 months, up untill that point i had broke nc twice. anyway saw her, had general chit chat. then i had a go at her for how ****e it was the way she did what she did. she cried and ran off. cried on phone to her current bf (the one she went off with), note she never cheated. but one thing i will say, she didnt wait around. since then i emailed just askin if this was her email. and her bf emailed me back. i deleted it. didnt read it thats it to this day. i know she isnt coming back. i already know he is better than me, older runs a club etc. me, young student to be. no money. Peter, a few thngs you need to focus on in what you've written. 1)She's not coming back. Right, she's not. That's the biggest step of getting over someone, and something most of us have had to. They are not coming back. What's done is done. It's a hard thing to accept, but once you do, it's much easier to heal. 2)He's better than you. Wrong. This is self defeating. Back to point 1 - She's not coming back, so it doesn't matter who the guy is or what he has. It's all about your life, happiness and future. You have to let this go.
foxh1234 Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Rehashing this crap is no good pete. You can ask the same question any way you want,but you will always get the same response. It's done bro, forget her. You deserve better and you will find better. Take care man
Author Peter_pan Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 sweet you guys are awesome, i love how you always find my posts and slap me into reality. yeh i met an old school pal (female) tonight we went for pool and watched a movie. shes pretty kool actually. but she recently split with her ex. and i dunno if we would be into each other or not. she was good company and laughed at my humor and general me. so thats a good sign she wants me to meet her other mates. and she said she would call me, but i told her she cant, my phone is off its contract now. but felt nice to see her again. we didnt talk much at scool but we knew of each other.
lofi_tokyo Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Peter, I know you know that I try to give sound advice. These days I hardly post, but seeing this one has me logging on, and this time I'm just going to be harsh. You need to get over your problems with this ex! Honestly, it has gone on way too long, and it seems like you've been told all you need to be told TO move on. You shouldn't need to log onto this site to be slapped into reality. Start living in it without this site. Some people get addicted to feeling the pain and dwelling forever on their problems. You are doing that when you absolutely do not have to. At this point, you're only making pain for yourself. Whats there to gain from taking a jab at your ex after ages? Why is this on the second chance forum? Things with her are DONE. He tears come from you making he feel ****ty about herself, not because shes still in love. Sorry if I'm repeating what others have said on this thread, I kind of skimmed it. Also, if anyone thinks this post is really mean or offensive, honestly, I'm sorry, but OY! Peter! Move on man!
CaliGuy Posted February 26, 2009 Posted February 26, 2009 Just out of curiosity, how does being older or running a club make one man better than the next? The true measure of a man is not his age or the size of his wallet, I can tell you that. People who measure manhood on physical traits, income, etc are completely clueless as to what really defines a man. PS: As for your story, you proved that you are not over your ex. And the fact that you wrote to her further proves it. Holding on to anger and hate hurt you more than it does your ex.
Author Peter_pan Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 hey tokyo and cali. yeah you guys are so right, tokyo ur post is not offensive at all . yeah it was an extremely low, weak moment of me and in desperation i mailed. i really really wish i hadnt, but cant change that. i honestly dont hold anger or hate toward her now at all. when that happened i hadnt seen her for a year and i just wanted to say what i had to say, so i could move on. it helped a lot, and i shouldnt have mailed later. but that dosnt matter really. she didnt reply, thank god. and i have decided to fully move on. and will live in reality without this site as you say. i feel like doing something liberating now ahh! peace
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