alexa137 Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 i know i sould childish but i feel i need revenge on a guy who played wt my feelings and heart started 5 months ago everything was good nice, cute texts, calls, dinner, drinks, flowers then after amonth nothing, he blamed me for beign stressed out from moving- so after another month we didnt speak for 3 weeks then started again-oh let me explain i saw him once a week for 1 hr,but he says we were not friends with benefits, that i was his only one i never could catch him in a lie or anything! well 2 weeks ago when i became unavailable to him on our usualy hook up day he went crazy! he sent me a pic of another womans butt! saying he could have her but hes messing with me! blah blah blahhow rude i was mad! thought it was disrespectful to both! so now we dont speak for 2 weeks now i really hate him- he lied saying he wanted to be with me only me etc well in the past 5 months ive been to the doctors 2 times the first time the diagnosis was yeast infection,2nd time bacterial vaginosis(which i cant blae either on him!) but this last time its neither but they test me for stds because of my age! but i am thinking its that! so thats why i want revenge any suggestions???
Geishawhelk Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 Yes. You sound childish. But so does he. Revenge makes you look really stupid, and usually backfires. Don't stoop to his level. Rise above it and move on.
quankanne Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 advice? seeking revenge as the answer to your self-induced drama isn't going to solve anything or make you feel better, because you aren't going to take away the lesson you're meant to have from this failed relationship. take in a deep breath, chalk it up to a learning experience and walk away with your head held high. And if you can't do that right away, ask yourself why you need to wallow in mud over someone obviously so not worth your time?
Author alexa137 Posted February 24, 2009 Author Posted February 24, 2009 I guess because this happens over and over again! all i want is for one man to want what i want a relationship-i am 39 and nowhere near one! never! had 2 bf's in 20 yrs! it just sucks i dont feel complete its very lonely every night! very boring guys just think they can play games and cheat and lie and its not fair!
Author alexa137 Posted February 24, 2009 Author Posted February 24, 2009 after ever failed relationship i have to start asking "is it me?" but i dont think so-i t hought i can be a good girlfriend have good intentions and quailities nice sharing caring dont cheat dont lie like to have fun have had good comments about sex etc... i try to think its men and their ways and not wanting a nice woman i believe to have my A game--a house a job, a car, one child and i just get used and abused over and over again and its making me frustrated!
Juno Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 I guess because this happens over and over again! all i want is for one man to want what i want a relationship-i am 39 and nowhere near one! never! had 2 bf's in 20 yrs! it just sucks i dont feel complete its very lonely every night! very boring guys just think they can play games and cheat and lie and its not fair! ....but revenge is such a negative action and only negative things can come from it. My advice with all due respect: 1. Take care of your health. 2. Date slowly. Don't let lonely nights dictate your actions. Lonilness can cause one to lower their standards. Find someone who will appreciate you for more than 1 hour a week. 3. Forget about this loser.
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