jadelil25 Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 I have been with my boyfriend for two months and I feel that I have put to much on to him and im pushing away. I realise im having problems and really need ideas on how to make things better. I have been insecure, freaked several times and also am depressed. I have seekd professional help about the depression but I still need to resolve the other areas. I have also apologised to my boyfriend, said that im getting professional help and I know it's up to me to change things. He said he understands and wants to be there for me and that h cares about me a lot. I have also told a lot of things to my boyfriend and what I have been through i.e abuse. I realise this is unfair and im sure my behaviour is getting to him. I.e he seems more distant some times and he spends a lot more time on the internet on social sites and he has also started to go back on to the site we met on, his profile is still hidden but he has been on there a lot. Im worried that he is on there looking for other partners even tho his profile is hidden. I realise I have a problem and do want to resolve this but I just need other peoples ideas and points of view on the subject. If I dont txt or call him as much, would that make things better? If I try to be more fun around him and show him the reason why he got with me in the 1st place, would that make things better too? I currently txt or call 2 - 3 times a day, should I maybe cut that down to once or less? Ive also thought about dressing up really nice, taking pride in my appearance and taking him out for a meal. I really do like him and care about him, I just really need help with ideas. Please let me know what you would expect from a partner if they behaved like this/how would you feel?
sand26 Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 I currently txt or call 2 - 3 times a day, should I maybe cut that down to once or less? um....yes.... you should cut that down, way down. You should text or call him 3-4 times a week. Yup, a week. why so little??? because you have only been with him for 2 MONTHS!!!!!!!! Move slowly! take your time! I probably know my plumber and mailman better than you know this guy and I just moved a year ago. What could you possibly have to say to someone three times a day? Are you texting sweet nothings?...... seems needy Are you texting random thoughts?.....annoying Are you texting questions?.............nosy Just call him when you have something to say... twice a week or so good luck the mfk
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