ConcernedMTB Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 My boyfriend split with his Ex last year. She was constantly cheating on him and going out and leaving their kids with babysitters while he was working, bar hopping. Taking off for months at a time. One of those times We met and got together. Now we're expecting a kid in june. But He is so in debt from before. He has a two bedroom apartment that he is renting plus hydro and utilities. He's got a visa he has to pay off. He has a full time Job and can't keep up with everything! The babychecks were direct deposited into her bank account. she gave him about 800 in three months time and then spent the rest until she said that she stopped getting the checks in january. Nows shes saying she wants to get back together with him, after she's been served all these papers that say she has to pay all the money she stole from her kids, back. He has a lawyer thats going after the child tax "or baby checks" but it's been taking months. all the government is doing is jerking him around. sending him more documents that he needs to fillout. Now his landlady has been pretty lenient with the rent, he owes quite a bit but she gave him the ultimatum recently. I have a parttime job and and 5months along, I buy food. But I can't help him out like I would like too. I need to provide for myself and the baby. We need help.. he's so in debt, I have no money. Is there anything we can do? Help for rent?
TrustInYourself Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 You're having a baby with a man that has children with another woman and no commitments or sense of responsibility at all. Take a good look at your decisions and tell me what you think. As far as money and rent, where is your family in all this? Do you have a support structure to rely on? Do you think he's taking advantage of you? Pretty soon you are going to have a young baby relying on you and you're going to have to leave behind the games.
Author ConcernedMTB Posted February 24, 2009 Author Posted February 24, 2009 Do I think he's taking advantage of me? No! I have family who are willing to help YES! but they are willing to help me. Not my boyfriend with his other kids and his Ex. I'm not asking them to. I am hoping someone on here will be able to tell me what type of help he can pursue. If we had the babychecks we would be AHEAD instead of behind. Nobody likes being in debt. I have my own income. But this is my baby's father. His childrens little brother. Is there any way we can recieve help. While waiting for the lawyer to finish handing us all the forms? something to tide us over?
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