Is she interested?

[moondogg]

I would like to know: when a girl is always touching you(not sexually) while talking, puting her hand on your leg, touching your shoulder "accidentilly" during a conversation/interaction what does that mean?

 

A expample: I met a cute, confident and funny girl on the bus, she sat next to me and we started talking, there was a lot of lauging etcetera....her hands would touch and she would playfully hit my arm etcetera on a couple of occasions.

 

Would that mean that she is interested?

Would it be ok for a guy to make similar contact.....brushing my hand over hers etcetera in a situation such as this one or would it be considered to be inappropriate.

All input will be greatly appreciated from guys and girls looking forward to hear from you ll!

[Itsnotme]

I personally wouldn't do the same with someone on a first meeting. Some people greatly value their personal space and if you read the signs wrong, you are in danger of being seen as 'touchy feely' which some people hate.

 

One the other hand, your girl on the bus, could have just been a very tactile person and she may not have cared if you did do the same. I suppose you will just have to use your judgment carefully on this one. It's tricky though as everyone is different.

[tomcathat]

Question

How Do I Know I Can Kiss Her?

Answer

Again, timing is everything!

Look for a moment or create a moment. Comment on her hair. Lean in and touch her body, touch her hair and slowly play with her hair. If she doesn't stop you. YOU ARE IN! She's ready to be kissed.

[wuggle]

Generally if a woman touches you, your arm, shoulder etc then it is a least an indication that she is comfortable with you.

 

It doesn't always mean that she fancies you, but if people don't like you then they deliberatly dont touch you. This at least means that it is safe to assume she likes you and you can talk and flirt and see if there is any more there, just be nice, some people 'naturally' like people.

 

Try light flirting, see where it goes....