MotherGooze Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 Well, another update The passed week me and my ex spend a lot of time together. We saw each other on monday en tuesday because he wanted to see me. Friday we watched a movie at his place and saturday he helped me move. After the move he said he had plans for the evening with some friends and he asked if I could join him. I accepted and had a great night with his friends. It was weird because his friends didn't expect me to be there. After that night he asked if I wanted to stay over, so we slept in the same bed, nothing involved though except some cuddling. The day after I felt terrible. The past week we had done everything that would normally do as in a relationship. I told him how aI felt and I saw it was hard for him. He said he loves me very much and that that feeling has never changed, but that he has a hard time trusting that I won't do the same mistakes again. I told him I understand and that I would give him some space to heal up. He says that he needs time to see that I really has changed, but if I do NC he won't notice, so I don't know what to do. Next week we have a new date because I already reserved it and he felt it would be a waste of money not to go and that it would still be fun to spend time with me. I don't really know what to do, as I really want him back and knowing that he loves me makes it harder. But I don't want to come of as needy or anything, because that will probably push him away. Maybe LC is the way to go, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Treasa Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 If he's showing affection and saying he still loves you, I should you should be relaxed, friendly, casual, and sweet. Show him you have changed, but do tell him you need some time to continue working on sustaining the changes. Let him make most of the plans, but don't avoid him or tell him you want no contact. Just be there, be cool, be his dreamgirl.
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