MeMyself&I Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 I've posted on here a few times but I am trying to implement NC and find that I am in a difficult situation. My ex and I have MANY of the same friends. My bestfriend dates his roommate--this was fun when I was still dating him--we often did things together. But now, with us broke up it is a difficult situation. We also have many other mutual friends in our group and we often end up hanging out at the same place on the weekends---it is a small town not many alternative hang-outs. So my question is if or more aptly when I go there and he is there if I just acknowledge him with a hi and go sit with some friends and ignore him is that the way to do it? Last weekend I had plans with my best friend and so her boyfriend (his roommate came out to meet her and so did my ex). The four of us plus quite a few more people were at the table too. If I could have moved to another table I would have but we were all at the same one. I don't know what I should do. If I don't go there I miss out on seeing all my friends too. But if I do go there am I breaking no contact and setting the healing process for us both back? It was sooo hard seeing him last weekend and us basically treating each other like strangers. I don't know how he felt--I can't. It may be telling that he wasn't around this weekend. IDK I hope this make sense. I just don't know what the answer is. Anybody have any ideas ??
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