gavinus Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 My ex dumped me 4 weeks ago. I saw her driving down the road, and I snapped. All the feelings I had been battling with rose up. I texted her and before I knew it I was at her house. We talked, nothing has changed, she stills wants to be single. I did not beg her back. I realize now I have probably justified her dumping of me, but I got some information for me as well. 1) I am glad I was able to talk about past mistakes. 2) I told her I would go NC, and if she wanted contact she would have to be the one to initiate it, that way it makes it easier for me to have NC with her even when I am tempted. 3) And finally I saw how everybody is only human and we all make mistakes. I hope this will help give me the ending I need in order to carry on with my life without endlessly waiting for her to call me one day.....time will tell
Goatsbreath Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 haha, I had the same encounter a month or so ago. Saw her driving and lost it, broke NC and went over to her house like its destiny. Really, Its just insanity but whatever. Usually take the way you wish they would respond and then expect them to act the opposite. . . haha
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