simplythebest Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 Ok, my boyfriend and I met online. We've been together for about 5 months now. The thing is, he is still checking his online profile. I recently went to the website only to discover that he has been logging in. In fact, his last login was less than 24 hours ago. Should I say something? By the way, this is not the first time it happens, I have checked in the past and he logs on every now and then.
Rogue52 Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 It sounds like you log on too. Who cares? Most likely paying the money and just curious. If you feel you guys are in a committed relationship, then just talk to him about it.
Author simplythebest Posted February 23, 2009 Author Posted February 23, 2009 No, I took down my profile after we had "the talk". I was just doing a quick search and it seems like he's still active.
4givrnt4gtr Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 hmmm you gotta talk to him for sure. I had this happened to me as well in my past relationship. I asked about it here and was told it was no big deal so I didnt think much of it. I still mentioned it to him, he just said he hadnt logged in for a while (all i could see was that he had changed his profile picture from the one i had met him with). I took his word for it. A few months later I found out he had been cheating on me with a chick he met on that site. Becareful, and have an honest open conversation with about him.
manugeorge Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 If you've already had "the talk" then you definitely have to say something. Don't jump to rash conclusions, just ask him what's up and hear him out.
gopher Posted February 24, 2009 Posted February 24, 2009 I've done that in the past when I was dating someone...just to clean my email out and tell people I was already seeing someone else. But I was upfront with the woman I was dating at the time...Ask him and see what he says and then ask him to hide his profile....
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