redmelon Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 I was just going through some stuff and realized that my ex took all of my personalized music festival posters and photos. He is a photographer, and granted, he took some of these pictures of me and certain musicians, but they were signed personally to me. They have MY NAME on them. I don't even care about all the stuff he took from festivals that we went to together, but I do care about the stuff that I had signed personally to me. Why would he even want that stuff anyway? Is it breaking no contact if I include a note in his friggin' mail I have to forward this week? I am so livid. Don't get it...
Geishawhelk Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 This is actually one of the rare occasions I think personal confrontation would be best. Call unexpectedly at his home - WITH a FRIEND - turn up on his doorstep let him invite you in - and ask him directly to return your stuff. Don't take no for an answer. Tell him you know he's got them, and if he doesn't hand them over right now, you'll call the law.
Author redmelon Posted February 23, 2009 Author Posted February 23, 2009 Wow, wasn't expecting that response! I don't think I am ready for a confrontation, but I will consider what you've said. Thank you. Part of me says that I should just let it go, but then, on the other hand, he had no right. I allowed him to come to my house, when I wasn't there to retrieve all his property unattended, and he took advantage of that. It seems the only motive behind taking such items is to be vindictive. I dont' understand why he would feel the need to act this way to me, when HE is the one who ended the relationship. It doesn't make any sense, but honestly, nothing about this break up does. I just wish it wasn't continuing to be so messy and hurtful. I am the oldest of 4 children, and I take great offense to people messing with my stuff! haha.
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