mcnattinattt Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 My boyfriend and I recently started dating. Before we started dating, I was aware of the 'crush' he had on his 'best friend'. Then his best friend got a boyfriend. A few weeks later, He asked me out. He reassures to me how much he likes me. But I feel as if he still has feelings for his best friend. (They have never dated though) I don't want to be used, or taken advantage of, I just have second thoughts of our relationship now. BECAUSE of his best friend. I'm not jealous, or insecure, just so confused. We haven't been dating that long, would it be out of line to mention how uncomfortable I am with their friendship? Maybe I should wait longer, and see how things unfold? I like him a lot, it just sucks that he has to have a girl best friend. sheesh,help on what to say or do? thanks greatly!
princess Linda Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 i know this seems wrong.. but it's not.. if your boyfriend truly loves you -he'd drop his "best girlfriend" in a heartbeat. real love respects eachother's wishes & feelings.. if this bothers you then let him know that he needs to find a GUY best friend & tell him it would bother any sane girl (b/c it would!) ps. who cares if it's a new relationship! start it off on the right foot & tell him like it is..! if the worst happens & u break up then you know it's for the best.. & if the best happens he will listen & compremise... wouldn't you!?
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