paperchase Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 So I'm still heartbroken. I lost my younger lady, 22, and she's very comitted to moving on. I've posted enough about the whole ordeal and this is not a post about that. Last night a friend of mine called as she was going through similar relationship drama. She came over so we could trade war stories. In the midst of all the empathy she told me she's always been attracted to me. We had sex once before while drunk. It was definitely sex, not love making. SAfter opening up last night, she kissed me passionately and did a few other things before we wound up having sex. It was very intense. She spent the night and cuddled with me and was just more attached and clingy than I care to described. She acted like she had fallen in love with me and even after leaving the next day she's texting me little sweet nothings. If it matters, she's 22 as well. I'm just hit mid 30s and look mid 20s. So here's the problem. She's not girlfried material in my mind, but I'm lonley and she's hot. I'm kinda nervous because the way she was loving me and the things she was saying were giving me that fatal attraction feel. Any advice would be appreciated.
EasyHeart Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 Nothing good can come out of this. You're not emotionally available, and, as you say, you really don't think of her as GF material. The only thing that could happen is that you end up hurting her. Tell her that it was a mistake and you're still not over your previous relationship. End it now.
Author paperchase Posted February 23, 2009 Author Posted February 23, 2009 I guess you're right but being with her took my mind off my ex except that I was thinking of my ex a little during sex. I had to in order to climax sadly. I know I'm a mess. At times I feel like I need to move out of my place because my ex's spirit is there. I've removed all signs of her, even deleted all text messages which I now regret, but it really hasn't helped me get my mind off her.
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