ruggy Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 OK, those of you have seen my posts in Dating know my issue with this woman. In case you do not, here's the link. I was doing better until Ms. Congeniality contacted me again a few days ago after three weeks of silence. Thought it was over and started to move on. I know she WILL contact me again cause she is returning my DVD in the next few weeks. I do not know, I just cannot get her out of my head. Her laugh, smile, intelligent conversation, and vibe just over intoxicate my mind. This is the one who say we connected on every level but there was no passion or chemistry. Mainly because she was never able to set enough time to give the relationship a chance. Read the post, you see how the whole routine played out. She obviously does not know my I still think of her. And I know she is not in a relationship. She's online with Match every night for several hours. I just need some direction on how to get her out of my head. Usually, women do not get to me like this. Not sure why. And, even if she said she wanted to give it another shot, I would not. The damage is already done. It cannot be repaired. Maybe when push comes to shove, she cannot focus on one relationship. She is 2 years older than me and constantly told me how much she wanted a baby. She was going to adopt a baby if she is not in a serious relationship or married by 36. So what do you peoples think? Yes, I know I am nutz. Don't tell me. Here's the kicker. Another woman I had not relationship with for a few years e-mailed me about a month ago. I paid no attention cause I was faithful with this relationship; which ended no where. So I e-mailed her yesterday. She got back to me gave me her number and said call sometime. I was going to call today, but thinking that is too fast. Probably e-mail her back and say I'll call her mid week or so. She is nice, smart, attractive (not as attractive as the last one, but attractive), lives closer, nice and considerate. I am starting to think of her more, but then I think of this one again. I am truly at a loss. I do try to stay busy, but several times an hour my mind brings the last woman back in to my head. Sleep does not better. I then have multiple women I am courting in my head, at separate times.
sedgwick Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 I was all ready to help you until I saw your signature. Fail.
UCLAMike Posted February 25, 2009 Posted February 25, 2009 I was all ready to help you until I saw your signature. Fail. why? have you been stabbed with a harpoon? either give advice or dont. no need to get all Jane Fonda on him.
Author ruggy Posted February 26, 2009 Author Posted February 26, 2009 sedgwick, guess you cannot take a joke. It was from a Rosanne show back in 1992. If she says it is OK? I am quoting her. Anyways, found a fix; Jack Daniels Whiskey. Works wonders. I recommend to all.
Recommended Posts