fball522001 Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 Alright my story is a little confusing so I'm just gunna start at the beginnig, sorry if you can't follow, but I'd appreciate any feedback. It all started at my job about a year ago, this one girl was hired, and I thought she was goodlooking, at the time it was just a crush because I didn't rly kno anything about her. A few months passed and my best friend became good friends with her, and all of us (me, her, and a few other friends) started hanging out together. After this I started to get to kno her and it made me fall in love with her, I found out we had so much in common. Unfortunatly I found this out right as my best friend and her started to date. Since he was my best friend I supressed the feelings and I didn't let her kno that I liked her at all. They dated for 4 months before they broke up, but they decided to still be friends. A few days later me and him went to her party, and me and her ended up kissing. I'm not sure if she was drunk, but I knew what I was doing. We began texting each other a lot and I told her that I liked her, and at the time she said she liked me too. We went to a couple movies together but neither of us put a dating label on it. I went out of town about a month later and when I got back I found out she went to a party and made out with one of my friends. This made me mad, and hurt me, I found out from 7 other people before my friend told me, and I told him I would be fine with him dating her (she never told me). They started dating and me and her continued texting, because I liked her so much I couldn't imagine cutting her out of my life. I recently had a birthday, and I got real drunk at my party, once she left, I ended up texting her that I love her. She texted me back and just said "ur wasted". I ended up finding out later that she saved that text in her phone, and she ended up talking to me about some of her real personal feelings, and she let me kno that she thought she made a mistake "Uh certain thngs make me thnk differently about what I thought I knew about something." "Why do u thnk differently?" "Being around the thng or person that I question" "What do u thnk?" "That I made a mistake" (she said this while she was with her bf) I kept talking to her and tried to make her feel better. All of us friends would hang out together, and when we did I noticed she would never really walk by her bf, but she would constantly be right next to me. About a week ago after we all went to a concert (which she stood next to me the entire time) her and my friend broke up (I'm not sure who broke up with who, because my friend told me he realized they had nothing in common, and he actually told me I should go for it because it's obvious we have excellent chemistry). That week she actually started texting me a lot less, she seemed rly sad and she told me she doen't thnk she wanted to be in a relationship. Normaly she would wake me up and we would start a conversation that would last the day, but I ended up having to start it once I woke up (she also texted other friends and se continued texting them the same). She usually would say something like "I'm a complete loser who sux at life", I would always be right there with a response like that total BS, u make my life so much better. Last night all of us friends were hanging out watching a movie. When I sat down, she ended up picking a spot on a different couch. After the movie, we all went crusing around, and instead of sitting in the front seat like she normaly does, she sat in the back seat. Today she hasn't texted me at all which is making me think she is trying to pull away. I'm not real sure of this, maybe I'm overanalyzing all of this (this is the first time I'm letting anyone kno the little things I remember, I don't come off as an anal person), I pretty much decided to forget about trying to date her even though I'm still in love, and just try to stay her friend so I don't lose her forever. Sorry this is so long and confusing, but let me kno what u thnk, I'm in college by the way.
dreamergrl Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 Drama drama drama. This girl has gotten around between how many friends.. three is it?
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 Yeah, I don't know about you, but having to be around somebody that's constantly sucking your approval and reassurance can be really draining. It's not something I'd choose into eagerly. "I'm a complete loser who sux at life" Give me a break. Can you say, "My self-esteem is in the toilet and I need to fish for you to bring it back up again." She sounds like an energy vampire. EXHAUSTING...trust me. When things were not going so well in her relationship, she tried telling you she made a mistake so that you'd pay her attention and she could feel like somebody cared. Now that she's not in one, she realizes that she's fair game and is pushing you away. But really - a woman like that is never going to be happy even when she gets what it is that she thinks she wants. Move on, bro - it REALLY is not worth your time.
weird_geek Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 i'd only say .. "move on".. ure nothing but a shoulder to cry on!
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