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About to split after 15 years married


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Don't really know what to expect just that now, there's good days and bad days; days I'm looking forward to moving on, then days when I nearly lose it, almost turning on the waterworks in the bread section at Coles, and at my desk at work!

 

Some background:

She says she doesn't love me anymore, and it's true;

 

Says she will always love me as a friend. She's being untruthful here because most days she obviously can't stand my presence, avoids eye contact, keeps talk to a bare minimum;

 

I can't move out in the immediate future whatsoever because where I'm going is thousands of miles interstate. Have to organise work, housing, etc.;

 

We've been totally faithful the whole time, only recently however, I detect a change in her mind-set (she's befriended a 16-year-old and delights in her teenage sexcapades!);

 

She bumped into a friend of mine and was asking about him, who he was, etc.;

 

She has a close friend who's just split from her long-time partner;

 

She's still very attractive and I've kinda not aged as well (we're the same age);

 

She was a virgin when we met (I had only a little 'experience') and the thought of another man..........ugh!

 

I have taken her for granted a little but the last few years have really worked hard at our relationship but according to her, once I move out, it's 'probably' the end of us.

 

I really don't know what to expect. I don't really know why I've just used up a bunch of bandwidth on this site, but I do know that when I touch her hands, feel her arms, face, neck, catch a whiff of her womanly aromas, hear her voice, look into her eyes and be in her orbit, I am still so totally head over heels in love with this woman!

 

I am so in for a rough ride...:eek:

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