BobSacamento Posted February 21, 2009 Posted February 21, 2009 Last weekend I went to two bars to see how the action was in my new town. It was pretty weak I must say for someone my age. All older people like in their 40s. However, I went to the movies and after Barnes and Nobel for coffee with friends last night and let me tell you it was jammed with potential. so for me right now -1 For bars/pubs +1 For bookstores
V.Vixen Posted February 21, 2009 Posted February 21, 2009 I like meeting men at home depot. lol You can find women at bookstores and coffee shops... that is a good start.
blondesmiler Posted February 21, 2009 Posted February 21, 2009 Supermarket Shops in general Coffee Shop Aerobics Classes/Yoga/Pilates
Frankasy Posted February 21, 2009 Posted February 21, 2009 Hmmm well the number one place is a hotel usually during summer vacations but school/work isn't a bad place either. In the third spot I would place the internet, sometimes it does wonders lol.
carhill Posted February 21, 2009 Posted February 21, 2009 In the last year, I've had the most conversations with unknown single women (no wedding rings) at: The grocery store On airplanes and in airports In hotel lobbies At concerts I'm not "looking" but just noting where friendly conversation has taken place. I wouldn't be interested in "hook up" spots, so likely would continue with what I've experienced if I were single.
Surfer Dude Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 Street. Coffee shops. Trains and public transport. Shopping malls. Bars and clubs, not so much. More often than not, the noise makes any conversation impossible, and 80% of population inside are men. I prefer the street, it's the best place to meet someone and it has the highest number of hot women.
flash582 Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 Last weekend I went to two bars to see how the action was in my new town. It was pretty weak I must say for someone my age. All older people like in their 40s. However, I went to the movies and after Barnes and Nobel for coffee with friends last night and let me tell you it was jammed with potential. so for me right now -1 For bars/pubs +1 For bookstores I don't know ... people are all around you, so anyplace can be a good place, depending on the moment. I would agree, however, that bars stink. Grocery stores, especially on weekends. Many people do their shopping on the weekends that their Ex's have the kids. Book Stores. Clubs and organizations. I joined several clubs off the internet and took classes for things I was interested in .... Backpacking, Cooking, etc. Carry a few doggie treats in your pocket when you go out for a walk. Ask a young lady if you can pet her dog and give him/her a treat. Focus the discussion on the dog. She'll give you signals if she's interested. 1
ruggy Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 Never thought of picking up a woman in a bookstore, coffee shop or home depot. Just seems weird, at least to me.
socialight Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 i know a guy who has dated multiple women he met in starbux. I have never seen him in action so I don't know how he does it. I would love to hear stories from anyone, including vixen, on how that works. I have heard people mention the grocery store countless times but I have never heard of anyone, directly or indirectly, meeting someone in the grocery store and becoming involved.
fral945 Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 My gym is a meat market. The dance classes they have in the evenings during the week seem to attract the best looking women.
runner Posted February 22, 2009 Posted February 22, 2009 isn't focusing on certain 'hot spots' a bit counterintuitive ? i've found attractive women just about everywhere; and besides, the prime hotspot you should focus on is your own bed
stepka Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 somebody fill me in on how you meet people at the grocery store? Most people I see in there are too focused on their groceries to start a conversation--I've never met anyone in a G. store. Of course I've been married a long time--I have a lot to learn about dating, LOL. I met a man in the health club the other night, but he turned out to be a nut job. 1
Tony T Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 Last weekend I went to two bars to see how the action was in my new town. It was pretty weak I must say for someone my age. All older people like in their 40s. However, I went to the movies and after Barnes and Nobel for coffee with friends last night and let me tell you it was jammed with potential. so for me right now -1 For bars/pubs +1 For bookstores Best place I know is 4236 N. Grant St. next to Murphie's Barbecue. Best time is during the lunch hour and on Saturday afternoons.
Viking Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 Whorehouses. School, work, church, bars/clubs.
Chicago_Guy Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 I think that a gym should be a good place to meet women. A woman who wants to meet a particular guy should initiate something by staring/smiling at the guy to give him a reason to talk to her.
ddraper Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 The truth is you can meet women anywhere. It's a simple hello or hi, and get the conversation kick started. From there, you just let it flow.
LovieDove24 Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 Grocery Store. My guy friend used to make me call him up every time I went to the grocery store and take him with me (we were in college at the time and he didn't have a car to get there himself) He always swore there were a million hot women there shopping alone. Quite honestly, I noticed there was some truth to it. I'd say 75% of the shoppers are female and usually alone, sometimes with kids. The other 25% are couples. If you're a single male, the odds are certainly in your favor
LovieDove24 Posted February 23, 2009 Posted February 23, 2009 Ooh another good one is public transit if you live in the city. I met a lot of really cute guys near the college busstops
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