im always scared hes cheating on me or disrespecting me behind my back

[crackerjax9]

got cheated on a bunch of times by my ex...have a new boyfriend ive been dating for 9 months..always think the worst of things and think hes going to cheat on me even if hes not...it like eats at me..help

[chrislovestosurf]

how does he act that makes you think hes cheating? youve been hurt real bad be careful about pinning that on a new guy who hasnt done anything.

 

"f^ck the rest before me and their crimes

for youre love i'll serve their time"

[EnigmasMuse]

I hope you can really work on yourself and these trust issues you have. Don't let what one person did to you in the past, ruin your chances at happiness in the future. Its no way to live. Not all people cheat...and besides you may end up losing him if he feels you can't trust him.

[Treasa]

got cheated on a bunch of times by my ex...have a new boyfriend ive been dating for 9 months..always think the worst of things and think hes going to cheat on me even if hes not...it like eats at me..help

 

When you got cheated on a bunch of times by your ex, did you find out each time and take him back, or did he cheat several times, and you found out about all of those times at once?

[crackerjax9]

found out after all them...and my new guy nos about all that and he just doesnt seem to take that into consideration.. blah

[gopher]

What do want from the current b/f?

[aferg]

Your last post says a lot. To me at least. I was in the same situation. My ex cheated tons! My new BF, now my hubby, worked super hard to prove to me he wasn't that guy. Funny, because here I am now posting about how I don't think I can trust him anymore! But he convinced me he was worth marrying because he wanted me to learn to trust again. I know not everyone can be that diligant and sweet. But I think your BF should care and take into consideration how you've been hurt in the past and how you feel. He should at least try to make you feel more comfortable and secure in your relationship!