DavidH Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 Ive been seeing this girl for a little while, like a couple weeks here and there... I/she texts sometimes, but unexpectedly im coming home for the spring... she asked when, hearts, just told me what she was doing one day.. but neither of us are trying to talk a whole lot before I get home because I guess we don't want to build anything up (been gone for months). I've only physically been with her like less than a month (and for all we knew, before, I was gone for a LONG time), so we didn't continue to talk on the phone for hours every week. shes single now, and i guess shes into me I havent specifically talked to her about seeing her... I don't want her to feel obligated or pressured because we basically broke up shortly after i went away long distance. I don't want her to feel like something has to work out, like 'we're in this together now!!!' you better like it... or anything awkward like that. should I just not really say anything for the next couple weeks (really, hardly any communication, but some every few days now), go home, and then call her up when I get there for our 3rd first date? Would it be weird not talking before this rendezvous? Or would it be considerate... letting the person know the pressure is off and it's OK to meet eachother again fresh? I kinda wanna talk to her, but I don't want it to seem like... blip... blip... blip... OK IM HOME YOURE MY GF NOW K?!?! Not sure everythings going to work out, but shes real nice, and I want to do it right
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