Women - Do you sometimes try to catch men..

[BaxterWidmore]

Trying to check you out. I have been noticing this lately from someone I work with. She will come in to talk to me and then walk away and quickly turn back. Now once and a while is normal but this is like 90% of the time. In fact today she did a twirl. I feel like she is very self conscience. She's always commenting how bad her acne is and her hair and how she dresses like a mess. She even asked what the average weight for women should be. I feel like I'm dodging bullets on a daily basis.

 

I'm almost to the point where the polite thing to do is to throw her a bone. It's like she wants to catch me. But is that like a pity check out? It's not that I don't check her out, I'm just very sneaky.

 

Do women do this?

[Island Girl]

Confident women don't.

 

I think she may have a bit of a crush on you -

but mentioning her acne is strange. She could just be very inexperienced at letting the guy know she is open to dating you.

[2sunny]

just be polite. don't lead her on if you're not interested in her.

[BaxterWidmore]

Confident women don't.

 

I think she may have a bit of a crush on you -

but mentioning her acne is strange. She could just be very inexperienced at letting the guy know she is open to dating you.

 

Yeah the acne thing is odd. I don't even notice it. Then she's like "I'm breaking out and can't stop picking at it look." I guess she wants me to know she's aware of it?? Basically she's pretty much crazy. She does have a BF so I'm not sure if she's interested. I think maybe she likes to see what options are open. Or my other theory is that I'm the closest thing she has to a girlfriend lol because she has said she talks to me about stuff more than her BF. Basically it's a nightmare.

[Trialbyfire]

Okay TMI about the acne.

 

She sounds like she's socially awkward. If she's seeing your interactions as more than they should be, back off a bit or let her know that somethings are better left unsaid.