Knight_Ctrl Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Not for any particular reason really, just feeling extra sensitive today. I guess its got something to do with my friend (female) that I've been spending time with, she only came up to visit and now she moved back down to texas. I think thats part of my issue right now. This other girl that I have great feelings for doesn't seem to want anything to do with me right now. We've talked about getting together but she insists that she is too "****ed up" and doesnt want to hurt me or something...........then there is the breakup I'm still getting over, I guess I need to get more over that before I can even think about starting a relationship with someone else. Still it'd be nice to have someone to spend time with and help me get my mind off the ex.... **** this whole process.
BCCA Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 It's been 6 months of ups and downs for me, and there is really no end in sight, unfortunately. You're probably making the same mistakes I am, and trying to find someone else to rid your mind of your ex. Problem is, I'm starting to get the feeling that you have to rid your mind of your ex FIRST, and then worry about meeting someone else. Otherwise, its almost like you give off toxic vibes that women can pick up, and they run the other way. And you probably have my same mindset, its not that I want to meet my future wife tomorrow, but it would be nice to at least make a new friend and take my mind off things for a couple months. Just hang in there. I wish there was more to say, but there really isnt. Life sucks sometimes.
not_a_happy_camper Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Hi knight. you're probably feeling lonely for what you had with your ex now that the other girl has gone. I don't know from experience, but I've seen other people here say it that sometimes at the end of the next not so serious relationship you have, or perhaps feelings you have for someone that aren't reciprocated................you feel lonely for what you had before. Doesn't mean you miss your ex. (I don't know that you do miss your ex............not by the sounds of what happened!). You miss those feelings. Natural to feel sensitive. It's ok. You are doing so well though!
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