goodguy15 Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 I can't seem to find a job, working extra hard on that.I was even crying today because of it.I broke up with my girlfriend because it wasn't working out.I am so sick of feeling this way.It's like I don't know what my future holds and god only knows.He just wants me to suffer to know end. I don't have a life anymore.I try to be happy but it's not easy despite of everything going on in my life.I'm frustrated because I have to start all over again and it hurts me.I see people have more success than I ever did.I'm sick of being laid off.It happened to me 3 times in 2 years.I went to school for welding and that to me felt like it was waste of my time and energy.I'm just angry right now.I don't know what else to do.
GoneButNotForgotten Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Relax and take a breath man. I know it sucks to hear but take things one step at a time. You are compiling problems into one lump sum and making yourself feel worse than you need to. The breakup was a good thing. It wasn't working out, yes being alone again sucks. But being in a relationship that makes you unhappy doesn't do anyone any good. Throw on some tunes, relax a bit. Look outside and see the beautiful day. O wait crap your in WI, nevermind. (Used to live there and most of my family lives there, I have a policy of no visitation from November to March) As for the job thing, it happens man. People all over the country are having problems like that. Yes some people do luck out and seem to back their way into a nice life. Life isn't fair though. Take each problem one at a time. Don't obsess about things that you can't control. Let the past stay that way. Find a new plan of attack on life and go to it.
not_a_happy_camper Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Hi goodguy. Sounds like you're going through a really rough time. You're not alone though. I've been looking for work for the last three months too. My ex broke up with me three months ago. It's hard, because you feel the need to distract yourself to take your mind off your ex. work would do that. simultaneously, having someone who supports you through it helps cope with the lack of work. Do you have family and friends you can talk to? I know it's easy to focus on the bad things, when it's all you can see. But gonebutnotforgotten is right, listen to some music to take your mind off things. Exercise. Watch some movies, comedies. Throw yourself into job hunting. I know it's a hard time for that right now, I'm in the same boat, but you really have to be proactive about it, even just to know you are doing something about it.
Author goodguy15 Posted February 20, 2009 Author Posted February 20, 2009 Well me and ex are still friends.And I'm not sure if we'll get back together in the near future or not but allot can happen between now and then.I don't have allot of friends which sucks.Its hard to meet people in a small town.Only friends I got is on yahoo Messanger.But I know a couple in real life.Its like everybody gets married before I do or the find the girl that they always want to be with.It freaking sucks.I'm a great guy my friend tells me that I'm not sure why other girls I see in a grocery store or mall don't see that. And I smile at them but some of them don't smile back.Its like I'm not BF material.My ex told me I would be a great dad but right now it just feels like I have to start all over again from scratch after 3 years of dating with the same person.I have family but talk to them that much.My brother calls me everyday.And my sister calls about twice a week.
soon2Bfiling Posted February 20, 2009 Posted February 20, 2009 Your not alone...read the paper ! Welding will soon take off and the girl will come when your NOT trying! good luck and stay off tall buldings ,there is a line of stockholders/bankers already up there..
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